I wish I had discovered this forum when I had time to consider options. I already had my surgery this past June (2021) but I am posting this only to emphasize how valuable this forum is. It has been interesting reading about experiences and reasons behind choices made.
I have been fortunate to be reasonably healthy and strong. Something serious like open heart surgery was new to me. It all came fast. After about 2 months of symptoms which were not eliminated with normal adjustments I saw a doctor. It was either physical or more disciplinary (lack of proper rest). Symptoms pointed to a heart condition. After an initial echocardiogram I was immediately referred to a cardiologist and told a valve replacement was inevitable and within a couple months.
As the options were described the dangers of Coumadin stood out as the greatest threat. How naive. I had yet to go through open heart surgery but that was not the concern at that time. My biggest concern was being able to arrange and manage everything on my own from beginning to end. Up to the final moments before I was knocked out I never got nervous about the surgery. Getting through the surgery was nothing if I could get that far.
You would think I would opt for the one time shot through the mechanical valve option. Maybe my situation is so unique it is not useful to hear. My big concern was not the surgery itself or even the recovery from it. It was managing everything on my own. At that time I perceived a life on blood thinners as a life ever at risk of stroke so I chose the biological valve and consequently to have at least two open heart surgeries in my lifetime (I was 62 at the time of the surgery). I would accept the surgeries but I was not considering the logistics.
Having experienced the surgery, (more specifically the recovery in the hospital), I would not make the same choice. My experiences in the hospital were some of the worst things I had experienced in my life. It was the people and the environment. The good could not counter the negative. Far from healing it was a toxic environment and my needing to be sparkling clear before I could be released, given my solitary lifestyle, made me an inconvenience to some nurses. The experience was so miserable I would rather live susceptible to a stroke than go through the hospital process again. I look forward to truly minimally invasive advancements.