Once again, I simply want to say to everybody that I believe this site to be a blessing to me and for others. As I have previously e-mailed TomF, once you get over the feeling of getting hit in the face with a hockey puck, one has to start getting to work and become an expert in something that is terribly frightning and equally extensive in scope and depth. The large volume of information can be daunting to digest, particularly with the background of how that information and decisions can impact our health and life, not to mention our loved ones.
In the end, it comes down to odds. What are the best odds during surgery and the post-operative stages, anticoagulation and its inherent risks, stroke, quality of life issues, residual effects of the surgery, doctors expertise and motivation, reoperative chances and the hospital choices. And to throw in the mix, and heighten the stakes further, our potential mortality and making us like deer caught in the headlights.
Those odds and choices are nicely summarized by the kindly postings of my VR "family". The encouragement is also very much appreciated and something I have earnestly leaned upon.
D-Day (David procedure) cometh. I expect to post good notes after the event of my life, and like many of those who proceeded me on this site, say to themselfs silently and sincerely, each day is a gift. (although I may not say that for a few days after surgery).
Surgery as planned May 14th, preceeded by catherization May llth. David procedure on the horizon with the Doctor that I talked to in Pittsburgh. I think I've done my homework the best that I can. I have emailed and gotten responses for Dr T. David himself from Toronto as well as another MD from Rush University. After many sleepless nights, I believe that I should take my best shot, understanding the potential risks of the relatively newly devised procedure. Like a family, we all have different risk potential and personalities but it seems that we all support each other very much. To each of my fellow comrades in arms, I say a very sincere and heartfelt thank you for you input.You have made a difference.
And so...like Rocky Balboa says " You have to keep moving forward. Life hits you like a ton..but what matters is to keep moving forward." See you guys on the other side of the mountain.
To Plumber1, here is my e-mail
[email protected]. Give me a shout anytime