My son got a little irritated when he found my post with his report in it. Yikes! Why can?t they just stay little and not question their parents actions?!
lol I had to admit it IS his report, even tho it was written and saved on a computer I bought, while he was wearing clothes that I bought, and had a belly full of food that I bought, with words I spent half my life teaching him how to spell... not to mention he only has a life because I chose to give him one. lol I still had to admit... he does have a few rights!
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So I?ll tell you a little about my childhood instead. Even tho I was born December 1960.... I was raised more like it was the 40s or 50s! lol My parents were on the verge of paranoid about owing anyone money. Every penny made went directly towards paying off our farm & machinery. So there was never ?extra? money. But Daddy made sure we had everything we needed.
We raised all our own meat and vegetables, Mom made all our clothes. Daddy and my brothers loved to hunt, and fishing trips were a favorite pass time. Once a week we?d go to town and Mom would sell eggs to the market in return for whatever she bought. The only sweets we had are the ones Mom made. We always had bees and plenty of honey... so one of our favorites was taffey. We always had plenty of cream ... so another was ice cream. And pies... I loved my Mama?s pies.... and helping make them... we always got the ?scrap? dough to put sugar and cinnamon on and bake. Yummy stuff! Our house always smelled of good food. Mom was always in the kitchen... always busy. And tho my Mom didn?t go visiting much... we always had visitors. Adults and kids... everyone loved to be at our house. I?ll never forget other kids saying they wished they could trade Moms.... I NEVER wanted to trade Moms... NEVER. The only salesman I remember coming by our house was the Fuller Brush man. I think he walked!
I?m three and a half years younger than my next sibling. So I was home alone for a while before I had to go to school. I got to sit with my Mom on the tractor as we drove through the fields and my Dad threw hay off to the cows. I didn?t know it then... but that was my driving lessons for a few years later when I would get to drive the tractor while my five big brothers and Dad hauled in hay. Boy would they get mad when you ?popped the clutch? and bout threw them off the trailer!!
I learned to drive REAL quick! And when the hay was all in, my Dad would always take us on a huge camping trip up in the mountains.
There was a ?box? in the canal just above our house. At that point you can make the water really still or add boards above the box to make it really swift. My brothers made a diving board on the box. I learned to swim after my brothers threw me in a few times. I hated the snakes! And there were always crawdads around the edges... so you had to swim up stream to the box to get out! They were so ornery!! Later my Dad built a huge pond on the back of the farm that was fed by a higher canal.... and we swam there. Our California relatives had a lot more money. They lived in San Diego with pools in their back yards and such... they?d come visit every summer and just sit on the edge of the pond... they?d swing out over the pond on the rope, but never get in. They couldn?t believe we swam with the snakes and crawdads and in such dirty water. lol What panty waists!
That pond is still one of my favorite places to be. At dusk you can watch the deer and elk come down off Mesa Verde and graze in the fields as the sun is setting behind the pond... and see the lights of Cortez up on the hill. It?s so pretty. ...well, when you get past the fact that the deer are eating all the profits!
My brothers were marble wizards. They played marbles at school and won most of the time. Each of them had a gallon jar of marbles... when the jar got full, my Dad would make them give the marbles back to the kids they won them from. My sister and I were more into playing jacks... and pretty darn good too!
Yeah, we would have been considered poor as far as money goes... but we were (and still are) very rich in family. I wouldn?t trade my childhood for anything. My parents left us much more than just a farm...
When I was beside myself with grief after my Mama died... my oldest son said to me, ?Mom, Grandma will always live in your heart, she will always be a part of who you are?. I strive to be more like my Mom and Dad... but they?re a tough act to follow. What wonderful people.