I had a bicuspid valve replaced, (73 yrs old) with a bovine valve and the doc also had to repair a sinus bleed on the back of my heart. So I went from a mini incision to a full OHS break and cut. Yes, it was a surprise but I was thankful for my surgeon not being in a hurry and missing it all together. Before surgery I had unrealistic expectations. I figured I’d be home in 4 days, it was 6. I thought I would sleep better at home, that took an additional 6 weeks. I would get my full energy back in 6 weeks, I’m at 10 now and I am not there yet, however it is greatly improved versus week 2 and 3. Nothing tastes good to me, so happily I’m losing weight but have to remind myself to eat. This was never a problem in the past. But it’s ok because I need to lose weight, now it’s much easier! I’ve learned that a positive attitude is my best medicine and expectations don’t help.