I'm definitely picking up what you're laying down Oaktree.
Although I should say that the last echo I had was when I was working a very physical job. It was so physical that the attrition rate was maybe 25% a month because people couldn't handle it. Not to toot my own horn, but there's not many people that can work that hard for 12 hours a day, 7 days a week. I had a job that would make any average athlete sweat. Looking back, I feel very fortunate my aorta didn't rupture.
I've got to believe that the persistent hard work made the ejection fraction higher than "normal" for me. Although I will say that when I had a surgery and did absolutely nothing for a month, I could literally feel my heart losing it's compensation to the stenotic valve. At the end of that month or two of bed rest, walking to the mailbox was a workout. But now I believe my heart is compensating again because I'm active.
What's a little bit worrisome though is that I've been on beta blockers the whole time, and these stats have still been degrading.
But basically, I'm not too worried about it. An average gradient of 13mmhg is no big thing if I'm not mistaken. I think the newer mechanical valves out there have similar average gradients... I did have a TEE done at UofM but I have no idea what the EF was. I'm going to get a copy of the report. I have a feeling it's back to "normal" for me.
Thank you for your thoughtful replies. I think you very well could be right, but I have a certain apathy about it right now.
I'll keep an eye on it, but right now I feel like there's no way in hell I'm having the surgery for several reasons that are beyond the scope of the thread. I've been on the fence for this entire time but I just feel like there's some things I have to leave up to God, or fate.