I had OHS exactly 1 week ago at Washington DC hospital. 50 yr old. 165lb. BAV. Received an aortic root enlargement and an On-X 23mm valve.
If you can have someone act as a guide for you - even if they live in a different country halfway around the world, do it. I won’t draw attention to him unless he says ok - but someone here has helped me so so so much and I can’t imagine not having had his assistance. Thank you.
Hospitals after COVID have gone downhill. It’s an assembly line. You’re a number. Make no mistake. So - make sure someone comes and stays during visiting hours every day. This was not only helpful for me, but also helpful for my roommates. From water, to clean bedsheets, to _____. Your advocate is your lifeline.
Don’t underestimate how messed up your digestive system will be. May take several days for things to equilibrate after you get home. Mine still isn’t right. Active probiotics like Kimchi, sauerkraut, yogurt, etc should be on hand. Also consider having Gas-X, Pepsid, Colace, etc ready to roll if you need it.
For a full sternotomy, your Abs/Core and a healthy weight are so so important. Anything you can do to save your chest is a plus. Remember, you won’t be able to use your arms effectively to get in and out of chairs, bed, toilets, etc. that’s all legs and core. If you can get this done via a mini-sternotomy then do that.
Speaking of getting in and out of bed - the worst pain that I had after leaving the ICU and entering the regular cardiac ward was given to me by nurses “helping” me get into bed and especially scooting me up in bed so I wasn’t slouched. I learned my own technique after the second time that happened. Ouch.
Get everything you need to do your vitals from home and know exactly how to use it successfully. This means practicing with your CoaguChek XS meter prior to your surgery. Know exactly how it works and how to use it. Also have an automated blood pressure cuff, pulse ox device, thermometer, etc. If I didn’t have my CoaguChek, I’d be screwed. Nobody came to my house as promised to pull blood for INR. Started off with 5mg and luckily had backup expert(s) to instruct me to double it. Immediately. I was still only 1.4 this AM.
Get an iWatch or FitBit with the heart monitor. Knowing my heart rate after surgery was key for me. I had to be my own advocate for Metoporol given that my heart rate after surgery was now 90 instead of 70. Ugh. Yes, it’s still high now. The metoporol gets it back to about 80. It’s also helpful during your walks. I like to keep my heart rate to no more than 100 during this sensitive time.
My heart now beats strong. And by strong I mean prevent me from sleeping because it literally “rocks my body” strong. My head will now move oh so slightly back and forth while trying to lay to sleep. Ticking? What ticking? I just feel “thumpous heartus”. Most online indicate this doesn’t go away. I was ready for the ticking. But not for this. I’ll get used to it though.
Don’t underestimate the emotional toll this can take on you. There are some great, wonderful stories here from post surgery that are so helpful to build positive thoughts. But be aware that you might get down into the dumps. It’s hard to be transformed into this new “thing” that isn’t capable and needs help. Open heart surgery with full sternotomy is a huge meat grinder. It will fukk you up.
Be positive and push forward, but you might not be the person that slams out 4000 steps while still in the hospital’s cardiac ward (Hi Chuck C!). THAT’S OK! Just set realistic goals, strive for them, and try to achieve them
Tim
If you can have someone act as a guide for you - even if they live in a different country halfway around the world, do it. I won’t draw attention to him unless he says ok - but someone here has helped me so so so much and I can’t imagine not having had his assistance. Thank you.
Hospitals after COVID have gone downhill. It’s an assembly line. You’re a number. Make no mistake. So - make sure someone comes and stays during visiting hours every day. This was not only helpful for me, but also helpful for my roommates. From water, to clean bedsheets, to _____. Your advocate is your lifeline.
Don’t underestimate how messed up your digestive system will be. May take several days for things to equilibrate after you get home. Mine still isn’t right. Active probiotics like Kimchi, sauerkraut, yogurt, etc should be on hand. Also consider having Gas-X, Pepsid, Colace, etc ready to roll if you need it.
For a full sternotomy, your Abs/Core and a healthy weight are so so important. Anything you can do to save your chest is a plus. Remember, you won’t be able to use your arms effectively to get in and out of chairs, bed, toilets, etc. that’s all legs and core. If you can get this done via a mini-sternotomy then do that.
Speaking of getting in and out of bed - the worst pain that I had after leaving the ICU and entering the regular cardiac ward was given to me by nurses “helping” me get into bed and especially scooting me up in bed so I wasn’t slouched. I learned my own technique after the second time that happened. Ouch.
Get everything you need to do your vitals from home and know exactly how to use it successfully. This means practicing with your CoaguChek XS meter prior to your surgery. Know exactly how it works and how to use it. Also have an automated blood pressure cuff, pulse ox device, thermometer, etc. If I didn’t have my CoaguChek, I’d be screwed. Nobody came to my house as promised to pull blood for INR. Started off with 5mg and luckily had backup expert(s) to instruct me to double it. Immediately. I was still only 1.4 this AM.
Get an iWatch or FitBit with the heart monitor. Knowing my heart rate after surgery was key for me. I had to be my own advocate for Metoporol given that my heart rate after surgery was now 90 instead of 70. Ugh. Yes, it’s still high now. The metoporol gets it back to about 80. It’s also helpful during your walks. I like to keep my heart rate to no more than 100 during this sensitive time.
My heart now beats strong. And by strong I mean prevent me from sleeping because it literally “rocks my body” strong. My head will now move oh so slightly back and forth while trying to lay to sleep. Ticking? What ticking? I just feel “thumpous heartus”. Most online indicate this doesn’t go away. I was ready for the ticking. But not for this. I’ll get used to it though.
Don’t underestimate the emotional toll this can take on you. There are some great, wonderful stories here from post surgery that are so helpful to build positive thoughts. But be aware that you might get down into the dumps. It’s hard to be transformed into this new “thing” that isn’t capable and needs help. Open heart surgery with full sternotomy is a huge meat grinder. It will fukk you up.
Be positive and push forward, but you might not be the person that slams out 4000 steps while still in the hospital’s cardiac ward (Hi Chuck C!). THAT’S OK! Just set realistic goals, strive for them, and try to achieve them
Tim