Ross,
You're not insensitive. What you said is true. Sometimes, I don't know how we get through all this. I think I view all these things in very small bites, and try to solve each small piece as they come. If we viewed them as the huge monsters that they are, nothing would ever get done, because we couldn't cope with the enormity of it.
I had to laugh in the hospital when an intern came in and started asking questions about Joe's medical history. We cannot remember it all. I have it on the computer in great detail, and bring it along wherever we go. So it was in his chart.
I asked her if she had read his chart, since all this info. was there.
She said that she was told not to read his history, that it would scare her. She only saw Joe once, so I guess she finally read his history and never came back.
He was followed from the ER to hospital admission and stay, by a fourth year medical student. She was a darling girl from California, and so nice. She'll be a very good doctor. She said she learned a LOT. Oh, by the way ladies, she told me that her class of med students had more females than males.
I have seen lots of question marks in his doctor's eyes. You can see them ya know
So they sometimes don't know what to do.
All I can say is that what they did worked, and he's getting better each day.
Can't tell you all how much I appreciate this website. Where else would I go where people understand about such things. I sure don't know anyone around here who could even approach the multiplicity of Joe's problems. But I think there are a few of you here.