Scott,
I do apologize for not being more clear in my first posting, I was worried that you sounded like you may not have been taking this condition as seriously as you should, and am heartened to hear I was wrong. I'm now about 5 weeks out from my surgery and certainly do feel worse than prior to the operation. However, I am still in recovery and am confident that once fully healed I will be better than before. And, mor importantly knowing that I am doing all that I can to prolong my life. Unfortunately for me, my pressures were allowed to get too high and for too long, so I am unlikely to see much reversal of my enlargement and right side issues. The medical field simply had NO idea that they shouldn't be letting these valves just keep leaking until recently. But I look on this surgery as preventing any further damage and reducing the stress on my heart.
I am one of the first generation of patients to survive the major heart defects I had and was never expected to live past my 20s much less into my 50s and with two healthy children. My cardiologists were always amazed that I wasn't having problems because of how the surgeries were done in the 1960s. When I started having symptoms last year, they were still mild and not considered life threatening (the arrythmias that is, the right side is still close to failing) but I felt it important to deal with the situation as soon as possible because of that looming statement and the realization how lucky I've been ALL these years. What I find neat to contemplate is that the patients I took care of as infants and young children in the 1980s are now becoming healthy adults and are continuing to benefit from advances in medical science.
I think my biggest issue with the recovery is two fold. My chest has now been cut open 4 times and is mostly trying to mend with previous scar tissue not solid bone. Also, my womanly charms are wreaking havoc on my pectoral muscles - you guys are lucky to NOT have that extra weight pulling on those chest muscles.
You have several advantages that should serve you well....
Great medical care, youth, good overall health, only 1 previous OHS, and no boobies! Be assertive, brave and confident that you are doing the right thing and know we are all here for you! Best of luck!
Linda