Wow, some pretty darn good news from all of you losers!!!
My holidays didn't tally high on the scale. I'm kind of even. I'm starting the New Year at 201. Because I just turned 55 a few days ago, I'm actually going to make it my goal to lose just that this year.... 55 pounds.
That said, my husband (who unfortunately likes me just fine at 201
) shared a New York Times article with me. If you cannot get the link, I'll paraphrase my favorite parts of the article. the link is
http://www.nytimes.com/2009/01/01/fashion/01change.html?_r=1&scp=1&sq=new year's resolution&st=cse
It's titled New Year, New You? Nice Try
It mentions Oprah and she shares some new words of wisdom ?My goal isn?t to be thin,? she wrote in O. ?My goal is for my body to be the weight it can hold ? to be strong and healthy and fit, to be itself.?
But here was the most helpful comment.....
Caroline Leavitt, a novelist in Hoboken, N.J. For five straight years, Ms. Leavitt broke her New Year?s resolution to stop biting her nails. ?I went to a nail salon and had fake nails put on, I bit those,? she said. ?I tried Lee press-on nails, I bit those off. I tried the stuff where you paint on nails, I bit those off. I even tried psychological stuff ? ?If I bite my nails, terrible stuff is going to happen to me, I?m not going to sell my novel.? Nothing worked. In the end, Ms. Leavitt said, she overcame her habit after visiting a hypnotherapist.
?The hypnosis didn?t work, either,? she added, ?but something he said did: that I would always want to bite my nails, but the key was that I would want pretty nails more. He was right. I still want to chew my nails to the nubs, but I keep admiring my hands instead.?
I like that. I would want a slimmer, healthier body more than ...... sitting still, eating too much, whatever. Yep. I like this focus. What do ya'll think?
Marguerite