'What if' games, CAN drive you nuts -- but you have to know which issues you CAN play these games with, and what issues you CAN'T.
In another thread about recovery, a few instances when post-op, some patients were weak, or didn't feel right, or had other unexpected symptoms, thought enough about 'what if' (what if there's something wrong?) to call doctor or nurse, or go to E.R., and the 'what if' revealed serious post-op complications that, if not caught when they were caught, could have been fatal.). 'What if' about a minor leak in a mechanical valve is something that probably doesn't deserve playing, but other things really DO deserve second opinions. The problem - with heart valves, or any thing in life - is when playing 'what if' is a productive game, and when it's a waste of time, energy and, in some cases, emotional sanity.
In another thread about recovery, a few instances when post-op, some patients were weak, or didn't feel right, or had other unexpected symptoms, thought enough about 'what if' (what if there's something wrong?) to call doctor or nurse, or go to E.R., and the 'what if' revealed serious post-op complications that, if not caught when they were caught, could have been fatal.). 'What if' about a minor leak in a mechanical valve is something that probably doesn't deserve playing, but other things really DO deserve second opinions. The problem - with heart valves, or any thing in life - is when playing 'what if' is a productive game, and when it's a waste of time, energy and, in some cases, emotional sanity.
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