Dennis S said:
In an earlier post I noted the following: "In my opinion helping someone else decide what valve to choose is very difficult for people to do. As I have said on other occaisions, human beings who have been required to make an important choice on the basis of limited information can experience a strong motivation to validate that choice by seeing others make the same choice they did."
I submit this is a perfect example of what I was talking about. And I see little value-when someone is facing imminent surgery-in making sure they know that "nothing is for sure".
(edit - see the original post that the above was in response to...)
The man, BulldogBob, is asking, "What Kind of Valve?" Evidently, from that question, he is asking for fairly open feedback.
Call it validation if you choose; but couldn't it instead be instances of people who have found something that is evidently working for them, something they are happy with, which they are recommending to another, as in, "Consider this?" There are plenty of people here who tell us the bad experiences they have had with this or that valve also, no doubt as a well-meant warning. Would it be best if they hold their tongues so as not to discourage people going into heart valve replacement surgery?
And, the fact -- and the way -- that Adam's surgeon's comment was in reply to what Adam told him his cardio said, namely, "Go mechanical," is rather thought provoking, is it not?
My husband builds diesel engines and fuel pumps. He knows which gaskets work and which don't. And he knows why they tend to fail also. Good builders have insight that regular monkey wrenches and gas station attendants don't have, due to education, and that all important thing called experience, among other things. (Any surgeon or cardio who may read that might cringe at the comparison; I use it as an illustration.)
From what I've read on this forum, those who have asked their surgeons what they would personally choose, mostly got replies of tissue valves.
By the way, can somebody explain a little more about that potential "tissue growth" to me with the mechanicals? Is it similar to those valvular strands that Arlyss' husband had?