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Speaking From the Heart

Speaking From the Heart

I am looking at a beautiful cover photo on a magazine called "Verve," published by our local health care organization. The photo is of our First Lady, Laura Bush, and the cover story is entitled, "Speaking From the Heart."

Let me quote a little of the article:

"We want all women to know 'the heart truth,' proclaimed First Lady Laura Bush at the Heart Truth campaign's Red Dress Preview during American Heart Month, February 2005, "which is that heart disease is the leading cause of death of women in the United States."

Each year, nearly half a million women die from cardiovascular disease in America -- about 60,000 more women than men. According to Mrs. Bush, this sobering fact came as a surprise to her when she became an ambassador for The Heart Truth.

"Like many women, I assumed that heart disease was a man's disease," the First Lady remarked. It's this very misconception that the National Heart, Lung, and Blood Institute seeks to dispel through The Heart Truth, a campaign that educates women about heart disease and encourages them to make their health a priority.

Studies show that a woman's No. 1 health-related fear is breast cancer. And yet the reality is that 1 in 2.5 women actually die of heart disease, stroke, and other cardiovascular diseases, compared with 1 in 30 who die of breast cancer. Indeed, cardiovascular disease is responsible for almost twice as many deaths among women as all forms of cancer combined. In addition, heart disease can lead to disability and a significantly decreased quality of life.

"Doctors and researchers provide hope that we can control this disease," Mrs. Bush told the New York audience, "but when it comes to heart disease, education and prevention can save lives."

The First Lady appropriately wears a red dress or suit whenever she speaks out for the cause of heart disease awareness, and she encourages others women to do so as well. "The color red symbolizes our commitment to fight heart disease and to educate every American about the power of prevention," declared Mrs. Bush, "and we know that nothing attracts attention like a red dress." (2006 National Wear Red Day is Friday, Feb. 3.)


This very interesting article goes on to discuss preventive measures to head off heart disease, such as avoiding junk food, eating more fruits and vegetables, exercising, and not smoking. Such advice applies to both sexes, of course. But the article also points out that many doctors "fail to treat women as aggressively as they do men. Doctors order fewer tests for women and take fewer preventive measures such as prescribing drugs to lower cholesterol and blood pressure.


So much for the article. What follows is my own comment:

It is absolutely astounding that anyone would consider wearing red as a symbol of this campaign to be some kind of frivolous gesture. Symbolism often precedes other forms of action. And surely men shouldn't feel insecure or threatened because of this increased health awareness on the part of women. I know that before and after my OHS just after Saint Valentine's Day last year the women in my family and women among my associates and friends were those providing me the primary support necessary for healing. And of course that includes the wonderful nurses.

I want women to take better care of themselves so they'll be around to be themselves --- and to take care of us! ;)

And besides red is a damn pretty color.

GO RED!
 
I wore my red today (and my "red dress" pin), and encouraged my hubby to do the same! And I plan to wear red or a heart pin of some sort the entire CHD awareness week too! You better believe I'll be telling people why, too.

Go RED!!!
 
Larry King Show

Larry King Show

Last night....was about Heart Awareness...with Kate Jackson and Patty Ann Duke ( both who had open heart surgery)and 2 Cardios..( One who wrote the South Beach Diet)..Lots of good info...Larry said, his pain from his Heart Attack started in his shoulders....One Cardio said, he has a friend who is a dentist.And has sent many to hospital..for pain in their jaw..( Turned out to be heart related):eek: ......I missed the first part of show..but, did pick up that all the people had on some sort of Red...:D Bonnie
 
The only males who have responded to the aforementioned insult are Danny and Robhol (thinks Rob/Danny) - well guys? Don't we support you?

It has been known for many years that women have been left out of the heart studies and treatment, along with other medical situations (i.e. viagra). Why is that? If women don't speak up/make a statement, we'll be left in the dust just like always. But we'd love to have the support of the men - like we support you.

It was all over our TV, btw.
 
Ann

Ann

Scroll down about 8 threads..same forum..and you will see that Tobagatwo..STARTED a New Thread..Wear Red for Women this Friday, Feb. 3rd..(Bob).....He also posted 4 hours ago that he wore red yesterday..Now, he's a real Woman's Man...:D :D .........I have a question..What is the difference in supporting a cause..Like wearing Red for heart awareness, a pink bracelet for Breast Cancer, some color for Lance Armstrong's problem..(saw on news just now that he and Sheryl Crowe have split)....than...wearing a bracelet (Like medic Alert) to show medic personal that you take coumadin, ect?.......:confused: :confused: :confused: I know a lot of our Male valvers wear bracelets and necklaces..:D Maybe next year..they will wear Red on the Day for wearing Red..to support Heart Awareness..:) Bonnie
 
Ross said:
I just went naked like I do everyday! :D

I can just picture it. OH MY! Who'd have guessed.

Bonnie, I saw the other thread and am grateful to Bob for starting it. This one just turned out to be a sideline of it but brought out a whole new string, didn't it?
 
You can Google, I can Google TOO!!!!!

You can Google, I can Google TOO!!!!!

Daniel Kreimer said:
What insult are you talking about?
If you referrred to the word "naif" or "naive" it means " innocent, not very sophisticated "
I don't think that can be considered as an insult!

Ladies,

Seems like old Daniel may have been paying you a COMPLIMENT (in his OWN way, of course) after all:

# The word ?naif? spans a variety of languages. In Italian and Spanish it is translated as ?simple? or ?naive.? In France and Germany, ?naif? has been adopted as a cognate to label certain forms of nonspecific and brightly colored folk art. In the English speaking western world ?naifs? are folk artists who lack formal training. Also, the term ?Naif? was picked to pay tribute to the school of naive artists who emanated from France during the mid-to-late Victorian period. ...

# a naive or inexperienced person
# naive: marked by or showing unaffected simplicity and lack of guile or worldly experience; "a teenager's naive ignorance of life"; "the naive assumption that things can only get better"; "this naive simple creature with wide friendly eyes so eager to believe appearances"

Guess we just don't understand!!!!!

Ann,

Is that a support "bra"??????:eek: Just wondering.:D :D

Ross,

Just the thought makes me wanna poke my eyes out!!!!!!!!!!!!!:eek: :eek: :D

May God Bless,

Danny
 
KimC said:
I love to see the debate! At least we're talking about gender differences in heart disease!

I'm all for debate and expressing opinions, but there's no need to be nasty about it as this debate started out. Sue, don't let it get you down. It can be a shock to post something and get such a combative reply.

The problem I have with go red for women is it's focus on coronary artery disease. I know that's the purpose, but I think most of us are in a whole separate category. I know Kim has CAD, but even hers is a "dysfunction" rather than blockages caused by, as stated above, too much Denny-like eating. (Correct me if I'm wrong there Kim).

Anyway, anything that gets the word out about a usually preventable illness will help those who aren't as health savvy as most of us.

Go Steelers. Since the Eagles are sucky without you-know-who.
 
Daniel Kreimer said:
naif

adj : marked by or showing unaffected simplicity and lack of guile or worldly experience; "a teenager's naive ignorance of life"; "the naive assumption that things can only get better"; "this naive simple creature with wide friendly eyes so eager to believe appearances" [syn: naive] [ant: sophisticated]


I personally find the application of the word "naive" as "naif" to be grandiloquent, gratuitous, and belligerant.
 
Hey, Lyn, yeah I'm on the other side of Philly out in th burbs between the Main Line and Amish country. I see your son is the one with the heart defects..I had a PDA myself. I know CHOP well because my daughter was there three times as a baby for a body casting on her dislocated hips. We see the ortho at a satellite office now but back then, nine years ago, the orthopods and cardios were right next to each other and had one big waiting room.

I'm not too bummed about the Eagles cause I'm also a Penn Stater and Joe Pa did us proud. Send me a PM if you want.

Take care!
 
Whoa! This thread is all over the place!! :)

I think I did the ultimate rude thing......I had an appointment with my cardiologist, a woman! and did not wear red !!!:eek: :eek: It was the first thing out of her mouth -- where's your red?? Geez.....:( I was so busy thinking up all the important questions for the visit that I left my charm bracelet (with the pretty red dress charm) in a different purse! :eek: I was marginally mortified!!

I think Daniel made some good points. I think he made them in a rude way. I think that his rudeness pretty much discounts his good points. I think he might want to be more graceful with this group if he expects people to respect what he has to say. If you don't want respect then why bother to say anything?

I do like how we've enriched the episode with strong remarks about community and with our own brand of lightheartedness (and who better to be lighthearted than a group of people for whom the heart has become forefront in their lives).

Go Red, Go Valvers, Go Seahawks, GO LIFE!!

:D :D Marguerite
 
Ah Marguerite ---- talk about all over the place -- clever how you snuck in "go Seahawks"! :D

All I can say is, better watch out for The Bus! He's getting cranked up right now. ;)

Go Red, sure, but also, go Steelers! (Here's my terrible smiley :)
 
I guess there are a few posts missing from this thread so I am a little lost. However, there are still a couple that are a bit mean. Why would anyone feel that such a tone is necessary or that anyone on this site deserves to be attacked?

We are all in the same boat, face similar problems, share similar experiences. Be kind or be quiet.

Yes, maybe wearing red yesterday was lost on some people but anyone who thinks a lot of people didn't know about it doesn't get out much.

Anything that brings attention to problems in the world is worthwhile, be it wearing a bracelet, wearing a certain color, or talking to people about issues. However, I would not confront someone living a lifestyle contrary to mine. Their life is theirs to do with what they will. As long as they avoid disrupting my lifestyle I will leave them alone.
 
red

red

To me, a patient should be a patient. A doctor should not bias a diagnosis based on sex. I believe some doctors are more likely to conclude a man has a heart problem as opposed to a woman with the exact same symptoms. This is rediculous and should not be. If wearing red will help this, then I'll dress like Santa Claus.

Jack
 
"I think Daniel made some good points. I think he made them in a rude way. I think that his rudeness pretty much discounts his good points. I think he might want to be more graceful with this group if he expects people to respect what he has to say. If you don't want respect then why bother to say anything?"
Excuse me if I can't be more graceful, but my chest wound pulls, my groin burns and my neck where the carotid bypass was hurts so bad!
Besides i must be going thru my post-surgery blues period!
And the Coumadin must be liquifying the dendrits and axon of my brain
cells.
 
Daniel,

That explains a lot. I feel your pain!

I remember post-op, I was hurting and blue. I put some cantakerous posts on here and was later so embarrassed I tried to quit. Thanks to Ross, I wound up just changing my screen name (was BionicBob) and I'm glad I've continued.

Most of us got through some degree of depression. We get better and move on. It takes a man to speak out about the hurtin'. You've done that. Now maybe all will consider your serious point about going beyond symbolism.

Hope you feel better soon!

Cheers,

Bob
 
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