Thank you for your response.
you're welcome. I come here to be helpful to people who are making difficult and scary decisions. I prefer to say the things which are the truths people often think but don't say because they are too polite.
Planning for such a sugery is made difficult because it often totally upsets the persons frame of mind and their rational thinking is influenced by their emotional side (although some people are only emotional thinkers all their lives, so there's that).
Actually, I do not know what medication he is taking. I just recall of the story of him nearly bleeding to death.
well knowing the facts is critical to knowing if that is actually an important factor for you.
Its like saying "I had a friend who was horribly injured in a low speed single vehicle collision" then you find:
- he hit a muckin great tree
- he was in a 57 chev with dreadful passenger protection
- he wasn't wearing a seatbelt
- his windscreen (which he hit) was an original old tempered glass one and he went through it because of the lack of seatbelt.
We tend to think backwards in our reflection of ourselves and what we should do, I suspect because the word "reflection" comes like looking into a mirror which is not only looking back but reversed too.
We should be looking forwards and considering the likely effects of aging upon is (because there is sufficient evidence to suggest we'll all age and follow similar paths to those who have aged before us). However many people spend their lives in denial of or rejection of the notion of "I'm getting old" (yes cosmetics industry, I'm looking at you).
Let me give you an example quite similar to your uncle. A mate of mine is a pharmacist, and has a pharmacy in a place where he has a long relationship with many of his customers. One of them had a minor stroke and his doctor put him on dabigatran (a common anticoagulant now, although muckin expensive) because he didn't want him to be fussing around with warfarin and managing his INR. Dabigatran is supposedly a "dose and forget one size fits all wonder-drug".
His customer had a small fall in the garage and managed to whack his nose and it suffered a minor fracture ... but like you've seen in boxing or martial arts it bled like a *******. He went to ER where they were unable to stop the bleeding. There are no simple reversal protocols (or weren't then if there are now) for dabigatran so they had to put him on dialysis (yes, that's right, what they use for kidney failure) and just kept putting blood back into him
for 3 days before the bleeding stopped.
Chances are that if he'd been on warfarin and managing his INR himself (as many of us here do) that he could have simply been given an injection of Vitamin K and the bleeding would have stopped within hours (instead of days).
There is a phrase in the surgical guidelines, which is "informed decision of the patient" ... however I've seldom seen people seeking to inform themselves, although I've seen a lot of people digging up data to support their already made decision.
I've been riding motorbikes for over 35 years (and across diverse countries too) so far I've had less accidents per 100,000km than the average (having put about 200,000 on some of my bikes). When I was younger I used to assist with a rider training program, because I believed in the notion of a trained rider is less likely to be a statistic. However I saw many things in that time which re-iterated how you just can't teach someone who doesn't want to learn (but for instance wants to learn how to go faster at an advanced rider training program).
I will definitely read of your surgical infection. That is scary. I will read it and come back to you.
It was a rough ride in those couple of years ... don't expect me to have written anything up beat. Ohh, and btw 7 years later I'm still on antibiotics and have spent an amount of my own personal cash to understand if I still need to be.
When reading that thread sus out the X-Ray pictures and observe the junk left around from multiple surgeries (which privide fantastic hard to get to places for an infection to colonise, making it a real war to defeat.
Right now I suffer no difficulties from my possible "share mates" but I am cautious to not want them to take over and make a mess with another "home party".
Best Wishes