Hm. Mary. I guess I think that I should discuss my choice of valves with the cardio to get some feedback on the post-surgery life, since she'll be my doctor. My husband has not met her yet and this is part of it. She needs to know that I am moving ahead rather quickly and she needs to order the tests (cath, TEE?)
As far as the date goes. The first surgeon said he was usually about a week out. So as soon as I decide when, he can book it. This second surgeon may be more in demand since he is mentioned every year in this highly circulated, high gloss local magazine. I don't know. I'll find out. I really liked his demeanor when he "fixed" my dad.
My daughter heads back to college saturday. This weekend, my husband and I will really think this through. Our damn insurance deductible doubles
on March 1st, so frankly, why am I waiting when we could spend that "extra" money on a really nice trip somewhere, down the road?? I honestly am to the point where I'm more scared to wait than to have the darn surgery!! I know I'll never get done all that I'd hoped to get done before the surgery anyway, so I really
really feel ready!
Thanks again for all your thoughts. Never hesitate! I appreciate all of them.
Marguerite