Gd afternoon everyone, 1st time posting, in 2009, me echo showed 4.1 cm thoracic aeorta, aug of 2019 grew to 5.0 cm and sept 2020 stayed at 5cm. both CT imaging and eco showed the same.I have visited the Cleveland clinic in Weston, Florida last Friday and spoke to one of the top thoracic surgeons, he told me he wanted to give me another ecogram in 3mos to keep close tabs on it and also said that I was a candidate e for surgery, at 51 the word aneurysm scared the living hell out of me. I am in the best shape of my life 6'0 200lbs always have been a workout guy, haven't touched any heavy weights in a long time, lots of cardio and resistance training. my cardiologist put me on 50mg metoprolol (bp med) 110/70 range right now and 20mg of rosuvastatin for cholesterol. I'm married 22 years with a 19 and 16 year old. I live a very active lifestyle and now I have to really take it down a bunch of notches. i'm concerned that mentally the thought of a possible rupture or tear will lie heavily on my mind and cause a great deal of anxiety. if anyone has any advice here, it would be greatly appreciated. I want to get in front of this, I understand it will not get smaller, so inevitably surgery will have to happen. So now I am processing. The thought of open heart surgery is not an eay pill to swallow, but neither is the alternative, so if anyone has a similar sitch and how they dealt with it, I wd greatly appreciate to hear from you. I am visting another surgeon in broward county at holy cross hospital this Thursday. Thanks for everyones time Hank