So sorry all this has happened. I just got back from out of town and read through all the "news". Maybe he is a "bad" patient because he still has pent up anger from all that has happened.Even though it seems to definately be justified, it is not helping him get better for himself or those around him and caring for him.Maybe there is a counselor that can talk him into being more positive,meditate against the pain,etc. Again when it rains, it pours on your family. Wishing/praying for better direction,health,and support your way!!