Hi!
I´m the father of a 15 year old daughter who had an OHS 3 days after her birth. Since then she´s lived a more active life than any doctor ever expected, full of sports and other activities. She´s currently playing youth soccer for one of Europe's highest-ranked clubs and are in the selections for the youth national team. None of this is anywhere close to the miracle of her just being healthy and alive. But it does maybe explain some of my questions.
She´s been closely examined all her life and it has now been confirmed what we knew could be the case. She´s got a very high level of fitness but her aortic valve is leaking and we have now come to a point where the valve needs to be replaced. It´s not an emergency and can be well-planned for the fall, which is fantastic. Her doctors say she only really got one option, a mechanical valve, due to her young age. We understand the reasons for this and are fairly confident with the long-term benefits of that as an option. Of course, it feels real though knowing your 15 year old child will have to live on warfarin for the rest of her life. But we try to view positive and optimistic even in life's toughest times. As you might already have understood, a big concern is our daughter being forced to give up on her biggest dream in life, which she has worked so hard for against all odds. Soccer is her life. It is to many kids...but to her it has always also been a special feeling to be able to play at that level against the odds she was born with.
Now, I understand everyone (doctors including) saying: be happy about the time you got playing. You´ll find something else in life. Ofcourse she will. Both we and her know she won't just sit around with no direction and joy in life if she has to quit soccer. But anyone knowing what the feeling of "doing what you were made to do" is like can relate to this. We know for sure life won't end for her because she has to give up on soccer. So that´s not really my question here. She´ll be fine.
BUT non of us are really people settling with "I guess this is what life gave me".
I´ll try to just skip more context and get on my real question.
I´m not gonna let my daughter take straight-up devastating risks because of her soccer dreams. But I will definitely support her in pushing every boundary in life to live her life to the fullest (in all parts of lives) as long as within "reasonable risks". English is not my main language and I´m not sure if this makes sense language-wise. What I mean is neither my daughter or I are looking for what the safest point of making it through life is. But how much we can do in life, without getting to the point where the risk is just not reasonable any longer. I really hope I can describe this balance without coming out as a crazy dad. I´m not ( I think). I just want my kids to live as much as they ever can.
So warfarin. I´ve worked for more than 20 years in competitive sports and read research on a daily basis. Not about warfarin before, but I´m pretty confident in basic reading of research papers. Since the doctors informed us about this a couple of weeks ago I´ve been reading Warfarin research for hours every day, It´s impossible to do that and NOT see the risks with warfarin in general and potentially in playing competitive soccer. First I was looking into the option of asking the doctors re-evaluate the option of a tissue valve and then replace that with a mechanical one at a later point in life. But reading the warfarin papers and also stories from young persons on warfarin, also makes me question if life on warfarin really has to be equal to a life without the sport my daughter loves to play. No questions there are risks. There´s always. The question is if it´s reasonable not to justify doing what you want to do. There are lots of risks (some with comparable rates) that we live with anyway. There are so many other factors in many of the warfarin research, as I find it, that act as factors to the highest risks with warfarin.
Example. One research says mortality from head injury was 22% for people on warfarin and 18% for non-warfarin. That is a significant difference. But still, if we talk about injuries in wich 18% on non-warfarin die it´s either really serious accidents or pateinets with other hight risk factors. And would then the increase from 18% to 22%, in such devastating situation anyway, being a reasonable reason to quit doing something that really makes you happy in life?
I´ll just let this be the start of a thread that can hopefully help me in this.
I´m searching for more knowledge on risk rates for well trained teenagers, injuries from sport on warfarin. Evryone is sports says it´s a total no. But most of it is built on research on fall incidents of 70+ year old persons with a multitude of other risk factors. I have a mother with Parkinson. I know all about driving home to her in the middle of the night and taking her to the ER due to a fall with blunt head trauma. Doing it 1-2 times every month. If it´s fully transferable and the risk for my daughter to die on that pitch, it is unreasonable. There´s no way we´ll let her play any soccer. But if the risks are overrated (as I tend to question) for a well-trained teenager playing, learning to avoid unnecessary risk situations and maybe play with a headgear, then I will probably try to help my daughter find a way to do what she loves and live her life pushing her boundaries as far as she wants (withing reasonable risks).
As you can tell. I´m full of questions and I´m looking for people to discuss with outside of the family and the doctors. To get perspective and knowledge of things I´m just in the begging to learn about.
I know the risks with Warfarin. I´m just not as sure if the known risk rates are transferable to teenagers with no other diagnosis. If it is mu daughter will find other things to enjoy in life. But if it´s not I think it would be really sad to limit her for no reasonable reason.
(I hope I don´t come out as a crazy dad...)
I´m the father of a 15 year old daughter who had an OHS 3 days after her birth. Since then she´s lived a more active life than any doctor ever expected, full of sports and other activities. She´s currently playing youth soccer for one of Europe's highest-ranked clubs and are in the selections for the youth national team. None of this is anywhere close to the miracle of her just being healthy and alive. But it does maybe explain some of my questions.
She´s been closely examined all her life and it has now been confirmed what we knew could be the case. She´s got a very high level of fitness but her aortic valve is leaking and we have now come to a point where the valve needs to be replaced. It´s not an emergency and can be well-planned for the fall, which is fantastic. Her doctors say she only really got one option, a mechanical valve, due to her young age. We understand the reasons for this and are fairly confident with the long-term benefits of that as an option. Of course, it feels real though knowing your 15 year old child will have to live on warfarin for the rest of her life. But we try to view positive and optimistic even in life's toughest times. As you might already have understood, a big concern is our daughter being forced to give up on her biggest dream in life, which she has worked so hard for against all odds. Soccer is her life. It is to many kids...but to her it has always also been a special feeling to be able to play at that level against the odds she was born with.
Now, I understand everyone (doctors including) saying: be happy about the time you got playing. You´ll find something else in life. Ofcourse she will. Both we and her know she won't just sit around with no direction and joy in life if she has to quit soccer. But anyone knowing what the feeling of "doing what you were made to do" is like can relate to this. We know for sure life won't end for her because she has to give up on soccer. So that´s not really my question here. She´ll be fine.
BUT non of us are really people settling with "I guess this is what life gave me".
I´ll try to just skip more context and get on my real question.
I´m not gonna let my daughter take straight-up devastating risks because of her soccer dreams. But I will definitely support her in pushing every boundary in life to live her life to the fullest (in all parts of lives) as long as within "reasonable risks". English is not my main language and I´m not sure if this makes sense language-wise. What I mean is neither my daughter or I are looking for what the safest point of making it through life is. But how much we can do in life, without getting to the point where the risk is just not reasonable any longer. I really hope I can describe this balance without coming out as a crazy dad. I´m not ( I think). I just want my kids to live as much as they ever can.
So warfarin. I´ve worked for more than 20 years in competitive sports and read research on a daily basis. Not about warfarin before, but I´m pretty confident in basic reading of research papers. Since the doctors informed us about this a couple of weeks ago I´ve been reading Warfarin research for hours every day, It´s impossible to do that and NOT see the risks with warfarin in general and potentially in playing competitive soccer. First I was looking into the option of asking the doctors re-evaluate the option of a tissue valve and then replace that with a mechanical one at a later point in life. But reading the warfarin papers and also stories from young persons on warfarin, also makes me question if life on warfarin really has to be equal to a life without the sport my daughter loves to play. No questions there are risks. There´s always. The question is if it´s reasonable not to justify doing what you want to do. There are lots of risks (some with comparable rates) that we live with anyway. There are so many other factors in many of the warfarin research, as I find it, that act as factors to the highest risks with warfarin.
Example. One research says mortality from head injury was 22% for people on warfarin and 18% for non-warfarin. That is a significant difference. But still, if we talk about injuries in wich 18% on non-warfarin die it´s either really serious accidents or pateinets with other hight risk factors. And would then the increase from 18% to 22%, in such devastating situation anyway, being a reasonable reason to quit doing something that really makes you happy in life?
I´ll just let this be the start of a thread that can hopefully help me in this.
I´m searching for more knowledge on risk rates for well trained teenagers, injuries from sport on warfarin. Evryone is sports says it´s a total no. But most of it is built on research on fall incidents of 70+ year old persons with a multitude of other risk factors. I have a mother with Parkinson. I know all about driving home to her in the middle of the night and taking her to the ER due to a fall with blunt head trauma. Doing it 1-2 times every month. If it´s fully transferable and the risk for my daughter to die on that pitch, it is unreasonable. There´s no way we´ll let her play any soccer. But if the risks are overrated (as I tend to question) for a well-trained teenager playing, learning to avoid unnecessary risk situations and maybe play with a headgear, then I will probably try to help my daughter find a way to do what she loves and live her life pushing her boundaries as far as she wants (withing reasonable risks).
As you can tell. I´m full of questions and I´m looking for people to discuss with outside of the family and the doctors. To get perspective and knowledge of things I´m just in the begging to learn about.
I know the risks with Warfarin. I´m just not as sure if the known risk rates are transferable to teenagers with no other diagnosis. If it is mu daughter will find other things to enjoy in life. But if it´s not I think it would be really sad to limit her for no reasonable reason.
(I hope I don´t come out as a crazy dad...)