debster913
Well-known member
Hi, all--
Happily three months post-op and my attitude seems to be getting better every day. Little things that used to bother me roll off my back, and I'm really starting to see what many of you have been talking about life post-op.
But...
I've been enjoying time with my girlfriends, most of whom are single. I'm not one to party and go to bars, but I've been out shopping, enjoying dinner, that sort of girl-stuff thing. Anyway, not like I think I'm a raving beauty (I'd give myself a 7 out of 10, just average-looking), but I've noticed men noticing me more. I was shopping last weekend at the Block in Orange County, and the manager of a store I was in was flirting with me. I went to the mall this afternoon to buy a new belt and a random guy said to me, "Hey, beautiful." This has never happened before! Of course, I must add that I'm married and wouldn't take any guy up on his offer (unless he were Eric Bana--so hot!!!
). In fact, I just find men in general looking at me and smiling. Could it be that I seem more healthy and confident now? And I was wondering if any of you, married or single, male or female, have found yourselves more attractive to the opposite sex since your surgery.
Just a thought... would be interesting to see your replies!
Debi (debster913)
Happily three months post-op and my attitude seems to be getting better every day. Little things that used to bother me roll off my back, and I'm really starting to see what many of you have been talking about life post-op.
But...
I've been enjoying time with my girlfriends, most of whom are single. I'm not one to party and go to bars, but I've been out shopping, enjoying dinner, that sort of girl-stuff thing. Anyway, not like I think I'm a raving beauty (I'd give myself a 7 out of 10, just average-looking), but I've noticed men noticing me more. I was shopping last weekend at the Block in Orange County, and the manager of a store I was in was flirting with me. I went to the mall this afternoon to buy a new belt and a random guy said to me, "Hey, beautiful." This has never happened before! Of course, I must add that I'm married and wouldn't take any guy up on his offer (unless he were Eric Bana--so hot!!!
Just a thought... would be interesting to see your replies!
Debi (debster913)