or probably more likely just deferred it.
Passionate should drive your thirst to actually get educated and obtain knowledge, instead it seems to have fueled an angry rejection of anything anyone says (for example in your post above:
"I didn't want to ultimately have an in-depth discussion about this so much as just raise the level of awareness about this test which again made all of the difference for me. "
Myself I'll go with the interpretation that Astro put on that.
I don't know about where you live but here the process is
- Cardiologist
- Surgeon
The cardiologist only makes recommendations, the surgeon decides if surgery is required, not the cardiologist. I've often said that the Cardiologist is not the one you should be listening to, its the surgeon.
In Australia we have the idea of a "second opinion" ... don't fight him tooth and nail, go see another one.
And I'd be cautious about assuming your the expert in matters because you've read some (quite complex) papers. What's your background? Are you academically trained?
Either way, I'm happy you're relieved but there's no reason to go about picking fights with us here just be cause you (appear to be) terrified by the prospect of sugery. Most of us here have had surgery and recovered and now have lives free of the degraded valve of Damocles hanging over our heads.
When the time comes I hope your surgery goes well
Best Wishes