I went home by car on day 16.....every slight bump on the road felt like a stabbing, and I was in my Dad's Cadillac for the first hour, then another 45 minutes in my husband's Honda. For me, it was a nightmare.
Dude, that's a long time.
Ok, will it be too much for me to handle being a passenger in a car from Tx to Mi?
You could just stay in Michigan for the surgery, couldn't you? I don't know anything about Lansing hospitals, but there are good hospitals in Flint, Royal Oak, and Ann Arbor.
Yes, it makes a HUGE difference, not having a broken sternum! In fact, most people with open-heart surgery are still in the hospital six days after surgery.
I was driven to my daughter's home eleven days after my surgery with a cushion between me and the seatbelt and it was very uncomfortable as it made the belt tight. It was very hot day and I was feeling increasingly ill and spent five hours in A&E that evening having had a 'funny turn' which turned out eventually to be the onset of digoxin toxicity. I then flew home four weeks after my surgery, about an hour. I was winched onto the plane then off the other end and then wheelchaired to a taxi to get me home.
What do you people have against Texas? I've read tons of posts where you guys tell people to go to Cleveland for their surgery, but someone mentions Texas, and you act like he wants to go to a third world country. People come from around the world to Houston for heart procedures. We have some fairly well known heart surgeons here - one died recently, and I think it made national news!!!
As for the train suggestion, I can share my experience. I once rode a train from San Francisco to LA, and then a few days later to Houston. I was in a sleeper car, which was very nice. However, walking from the sleeper car to the dining car would be very difficult for someone recovering from heart surgery, just with the normal motion, not to mention the occasional bumps and jolts. Depending on the state, the tracks aren't always smooth. We were on 3 different trains and the dining car was always at the opposite end from the sleeper cars! We had to walk through throngs of people who were in the regular seating, some of which would stand up in front of you without warning. This can be avoided by having room service, or bringing your own food, but it also turns an 18-20 hour drive into a 27-30 hour train trip.
You're right Lyn that the train is a great option to flying and sometimes cheaper and faster than driving (though not faster in this particular case). Unfortunately, not all states have maintained their tracks as well as others, particularly in parts of the country where train travel is not as popular, and it makes the ride more rough. I remember the porter telling us that the train had to slow down when it got into New Mexico because of this. It's still a great way to travel, but I wanted to point out that you might be confined to your room for part of the trip, so be prepared.
don't make any decisions like that until after surgery. you'll be squeezing that pillow. lol