Hi and welcome
I understand ... but my only advice is: there is only one thing you truly have control over; which is how you choose to respond to something. The rest will unfold as the universe of probability driven everythings does. Of that you have no choice.
The real change here is probably that now that you are confronted by something you have no control over, you feel stripped of control. In reality you never had much control, and the rest was a sort of illusion/delusion.
Some views of what I've said, said another way
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something from my personal experience which I hope clarifies why I'm solidly in this place
I guess it depends on two things:
- how healthy and fit you are
- how long you expect to live for
So, in brief TAVR is the way to go if:
- you have solid reasons for believing that you won't live past 9 years from now
- you are very frail
- Doctors are telling you you are not a candidate for OHS (note: this does not mean some psychopath is saying to you "you can have the easy way out with TAVR if you want it")
TAVR is not the way to go if:
- you are healthy
- you see no reason why you'd not live to 90 (friend of mines mother in law just had her 90th and is still walking / bus / train everywhere, and I saw many many grandmothers still riding bicycles to the shop in Japan when I lived there)
This is because the valves do not last longer than OHS (even bio-prosthesis) and really make the next valve replacement very hard (last thing you want at 70 is a very hard surgery)
I would take the time to review everything I wrote here (
link) to Caroline. Further I'd suggest you take the time to patiently listen to and digest the following presentations by Dr Schaff of the Mayo
and a more current video
I think more than warfarin etc. This is the main issue of the valve replacement.
Lastly let me say that valvular heart disease has no cure, but all the options available have pros and cons; we exchange valvular heart disease for prosthetic valve dis-ease and we need to understand that there are managements required for all options
- OHS with mechanical valve the management option is anticoagulation therapy, most will get a lifetime on a mechanical valve. You take a pill, you manage your INR.
- OHS with bioprosthesis you don't do anything, you let them do everything. They monitor, they check they decide when the time is right for surgery #2 ... because with a bioprosthesis surgery #2 is approaching a statistical certainty at 20 years (pretty poor timing for a 62yo)
- with TAVR its the same as bio-prosthesis except shorter duration and the (emphasis) possibility of valve in valve. Valve in Valve means the hole gets smaller and you begin "post intervention" with stenosis already. The Valve in Valve therefore lasts less time.
I munged this picture up to show you what I mean with a bioprosthetic valve placed inside anoterer
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Best Wishes