Life Saving Surgery
Life Saving Surgery
I responded to a thread under the Valve forum, but I would like to respond here also.
Reading the details of what is in Scott's chest, described at the beginning of this thread, there are a number of things typical of BAVD - the malformed aortic valve leaflets, the ascending aortic aneurysm, and even the WPW.
Scott's aorta has grown to a very large size in less than a year. That in itself is an indicator that he is at risk of aortic tearing/rupture and needs surgery as soon as possible.
The day of surgery will be a very good day; not an easy day in many ways, but a very good day because the aneurysm that represents a very real danger to him now will be gone. This is indeed life saving surgery. There will be a new valve also, and that will be so good for his heart! The choices you are called on to make now are not easy, but they are life saving! The surgical/hospital experience seems strange now, but it may help to think of it as all aimed at just one goal, the best possible result for Scott!
Prior to surgery, the ventilator is one of the things that can seem so frightening. One of the first goals after surgery is to get them off the vent and breathing on their own as soon as possible! I will tell you that my husband has gone through this three times and while not looking forward to it, he did very well. Your son will too! Technology continues to improve, and one thing my husband told me is that the vent tubes used now are better than the one he had the first time - smaller and more comfortable.
My husband wanted to talk to me and couldn't, of course, until the tube was out. One thing that family can do is tell them what they most want to know - that the surgery went fine, they have their new valve, the aneurysm is all gone, and they are doing just great! You can bring positive energy and love into that room in ICU - so important!
Best wishes to Scott and to you. And before too long, you and others in your family will want to check on your valves and aorta also, if you have not already done so! BAVD is genetic and may affect multiple family members.
Arlyss