tigerlily
Well-known member
This is indeed a very interesting thread. I often wonder how experiencing heart surgery has affected other people and would love to hear more. Has anyone made a big shift in their lives as a result or their experience? Changed jobs, careers, locations, relationships, etc.? I think I take myself more seriously than before and that's not good. I've had several surprise health issues that were serious and worry what could happen next. I would really like to change that if, like Marguerite said, it's a choice and not something more complicated requiring intervention.
I think how you respond to OHS has a lot to do with how safe you felt as a child growing up. I didn't live in a safe environment in those days. In fact, anything could happen and did. That may sound weird to some of you but your world view is formed to a large extent by your early experiences and tends to stay with you for better or worse. It can be changed but it takes a lot of effort.
For me personally, I have to work hard to stay on the positive. To mind my thoughts and keep them positive and never forget that I can't get through this life by myself. I'm not strong enough. I need my friends, my ever understanding family, and God to help me everyday. I also need to work on being less about me. This is a great place to work on that.
I hope you get your sense of humor back soon Distances. I know you miss it. Don't give up until you do.
I think how you respond to OHS has a lot to do with how safe you felt as a child growing up. I didn't live in a safe environment in those days. In fact, anything could happen and did. That may sound weird to some of you but your world view is formed to a large extent by your early experiences and tends to stay with you for better or worse. It can be changed but it takes a lot of effort.
For me personally, I have to work hard to stay on the positive. To mind my thoughts and keep them positive and never forget that I can't get through this life by myself. I'm not strong enough. I need my friends, my ever understanding family, and God to help me everyday. I also need to work on being less about me. This is a great place to work on that.
I hope you get your sense of humor back soon Distances. I know you miss it. Don't give up until you do.