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This is a time when it's best to focus on the positive and be optimistic. A friend of mine was nervous facing his aortic valve surgery. I shared with him that the mortality is only about 2% for this surgery and since he was getting it done at a very experienced nationally ranked clinic, with a very experienced surgical team, his risk was probably only about 1%. His reply was "Yeah, but somebody is that 1%." Technically true.My head does spin a little when I think about the %'s like 3-8% chance of death, 3-6% chance of stroke as its a big operation and also the potential impaired renal function once its all done.
I think that there is a time for extreme optimism. When the outcome is totally out of your control is that time. You are doing exactly as you should do and losing weight to improve your odds going into the surgery. This is within your control and the thing which you should focus on. The rest is in the hands of the experienced team who will take care of you. It is time for you to know that the overwhelming odds are in your favor and believe that you "will" wake up on the other side and begin your recovery journey.
This also gives you a second chance at improving your lifestyle to significantly have a good chance at having a long life after surgery. You are already trying to make yourself as healthy as possible going into surgery. You have the opportunity to continue this after surgery and take control of your future as best you can. I would encourage you to do so.
BTW, my friend who was worried that he might be one of the 1% did just fine and had a great recovery.