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Unless you are completely in charge (legally) of her medical decisions, I can NOT imagine a 2nd opinion doctor, letting you come to the appt and not the patient. Also For 2nd opinions you need actually CDs or tapes of the procedures doneand not just the paperwork. Once you decide who you want the 2nd opinions from, you contact them and see exactly what they need, and then the patient fills out the forms from the place that has the records and has them sent.
I've taken care of all my sons medical decisions since he was a day old and needed heart surgery, all of his doctors know we always get the records ect, BUT as soon as Justin turned 18 HE had to sign the forms not me, so I would imagine it works the same way for a parent, as long as they are legally in control of their lives THEY have to sign the forms. They also can sign HIPPA forms so you are allowed to talk to the doctors also, but they have to decide that
Thanks very much for the explanation.