(By the way, Carol is another one of the "borderline" Marfan cases, like me--narrow jaw, longish fingers, but otherwise not Marfan-looking at all.)
Thanks for the two of you who responded. I guess no one wants to hear scary news. Not me. But I did tell my daughter to watch me for signs of mini-strokes because one of the symptoms of mini-strokes is NO MEMORY of them and denial they ever happened.
BTW, Carol has always had good heart valves, unlike me who had a bicuspid aortic valve as well as the aneurysm. These things are so variable and unpredictable!
Maryka, I think it's that those of us who don't have have connective tissue disease feel guilty, especially as there is no glib advice available to give someone who is living the bad end of the nightmare.Thanks for the two of you who responded. I guess no one wants to hear scary news.