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My cardio has been watching a dilated aortic root and mild aortic regurgitation for a couple of years. 2 years ago the valve was at 4.4 by echo and we decided to watch and wait. Now it is measuring 4.9 (the mri report actually stated 5.3, but the surgeon looking at the pictures said that he couldn't find a picture with that measurement.).
The surgeon said the increase wasn't too bad and that none of these numbers are all that exact and he would still recommend watching and waiting. I asked him the downside of having the corrective surgery now, while I'm still "relatively" young and he said the downside is that open heart surgery is a big operation and I may die of something else before this is a problem so it would be an unnecessary big operation. I was feeling pretty good after that appointment.
But I went to get a second opinion and this surgeon said that the increase is definitely concerning but not an immediate emergency. However, he thinks I am young enough that this WILL cause a problem at some point so I could just go ahead and have the surgery now and be fixed of this problem forever. Or I could watch and wait for the surgery until it gets bigger.
I don't think the objective numbers are so bad, but I'm 5'4" and <120lb, so it is the aortic relative size and body surface indicator that is worrying.
Ever since I found out I've been freaked out by doing ordinary things. I keep running morbid thought experiments in my mind, like it bursts while I'm driving or home alone with my kids and they will have to live with that image forever. The surgery is a big deal recovery-wise but also pretty safe mortality-wise. If my aorta dissects or ruptures, that is an emergency that many people don't survive. But it might not do that. It's hard to contemplate taking about 3 months out of your life to recover from something that you may or may not need. And I keep thinking that if I do this and am in the 1% that dies or strokes out on the operating table, they'll be at my funeral saying, "Damn, she didn't even have to do this operation!"
On the other hand, if I do nothing and the thing bursts next year, they'll be at the funeral saying, "Damn, they told her about this a year ago; why didn't she do anything?"
I am leaning heavily towards getting it done. My husband strongly feels I should wait until a surgeon says that I absolutely need it within 3-5 years (not a vague 'someday'). I'm not sure that will happen in the nice, systematic way he envisions.
The surgeon said the increase wasn't too bad and that none of these numbers are all that exact and he would still recommend watching and waiting. I asked him the downside of having the corrective surgery now, while I'm still "relatively" young and he said the downside is that open heart surgery is a big operation and I may die of something else before this is a problem so it would be an unnecessary big operation. I was feeling pretty good after that appointment.
But I went to get a second opinion and this surgeon said that the increase is definitely concerning but not an immediate emergency. However, he thinks I am young enough that this WILL cause a problem at some point so I could just go ahead and have the surgery now and be fixed of this problem forever. Or I could watch and wait for the surgery until it gets bigger.
I don't think the objective numbers are so bad, but I'm 5'4" and <120lb, so it is the aortic relative size and body surface indicator that is worrying.
Ever since I found out I've been freaked out by doing ordinary things. I keep running morbid thought experiments in my mind, like it bursts while I'm driving or home alone with my kids and they will have to live with that image forever. The surgery is a big deal recovery-wise but also pretty safe mortality-wise. If my aorta dissects or ruptures, that is an emergency that many people don't survive. But it might not do that. It's hard to contemplate taking about 3 months out of your life to recover from something that you may or may not need. And I keep thinking that if I do this and am in the 1% that dies or strokes out on the operating table, they'll be at my funeral saying, "Damn, she didn't even have to do this operation!"
On the other hand, if I do nothing and the thing bursts next year, they'll be at the funeral saying, "Damn, they told her about this a year ago; why didn't she do anything?"
I am leaning heavily towards getting it done. My husband strongly feels I should wait until a surgeon says that I absolutely need it within 3-5 years (not a vague 'someday'). I'm not sure that will happen in the nice, systematic way he envisions.