sylviayasgur said:
hi again,
the only other person i would talk to about this would be dr. stelzer.
he seems to be another surgeon who is proficient at doing rosses.
maybe he'll have some input? he might even just tell you that you are in the best of hands and that dr.p is the one to do this. who knows?
i know dr. stelzer will often come to the phone himself or will return calls personally.
Paul Stelzer, M.D.
Beth Israel Medical Center
11th floor
317 E. 17th Street
New York, NY 10003
212-420-2584
fax: 212-420-2321
[email protected]
i don't mean to be "pushy" but i just thought you might want to do this.
if you are totally comfortable with dr.p and his choices, i'm the first to tell you to go with him.
you are so strongly in our thoughts and prayers. we are here if you need anything.
be well,
sylvia
Thanks for the info Sylvia.
You are not being pushy, I welcome all opinions. I have every intention to talk to a couple other docs prior to having any procedure done. Stelzer was one I was thinking of contacting, you have just made it easier.
However, I am very confident in Dr. P. He is an amazing surgeon, but multiple opinions are a good thing. You never know what one surgeon may have ideas about compared to another.
hensylee said:
Ben shocks like this I don't want to hear at all, much less while I am on a trip. However news doesn't wait for anyone, does it. I will be following your progress as I have been doieng for six and a half yrs now.
You are right Ann, news, whether good or bad does not wait for our timing. It comes when it wants too.
I didn?t want to hear about it either.
John & Joann said:
As you know, we have the GREATEST faith in Dr. P. He is a fine gentleman with tremendous skill and compassion.
We will be in contact with you and your family privately!
Our thoughts and prayers have been with all of you this Thanksgiving.
John & Joann
Thank you for the well wishes for Thanksgiving. I trust yours was well.
I also have a lot of faith in Dr. P. he knows his stuff and is very forthright with his opinions and recommendations.
LUVMyBirman said:
Wishing you well during your decision process....and forward. I am confident you will make a proper choice when the time is right.
Take care.
Thank you. I plan on gathering as much info as possible to be able to make that right choice.
Nan said:
Hello Ben, I can only imagine how you are feeling about this. Just wanted to drop you a line and let you know you are in my thoughts. And I am wishing you all the best. and IMHO probably better to do it sooner rather than later!
You are correct that sooner is better than later; however I do not want to rush to any decisions. There is a lot of information to process.
Granbonny said:
I have been reading your posts.....Didn't want to post anything..but now, after others have posted..just wanted to say....You mentioned 1 day ago..about your size...6'6 and 275 lbs. and You said something about..time to intervine on your phyical statue....... I was afraid to post..because..that was the exact same height/weight as my wonderful B/I/L's size...when he had a dissection of his aneurysm...16 years ago..at the age of 51..with no symptoms.....He told my sister, he was having bad heartburn......Small hospital thought so, too..Died 24 hours later..Even, tho, they took him to larger hospital..when they found out what was really wrong. and tried to save him with the operation...I really hate to bring this up...but..praying that you will have a better outcome. ..Times have changed so much..I am sure your doctor's are on top of things......Again..didn't mean to bring up bad stories.Bonnie
Bonnie, thank you for sharing that story. I can only imagine how hard it is to even speak about it; but I appreciate the input.
I have always wondered what real symptoms of aneurysm?s are!!!???
francie12 said:
So sorry to read this... I've followed your posts since I first arrived on this site a couple of years ago, with a probable Ross procedure in the cards for my son. Here's hoping that a surgery, if/when needed, will go smoothly and be the last one you ever have to think about.
I am still very PRO Ross Procedure. When you are the correct candidate and you are in the right hands (surgeon wise) you are making the best choice that is available at this time in history. We all hope better options are coming soon, but no one knows if or when and new advances will be available. The RP is the way to go, if you meet all the qualifications.
BTW, I hope this will be the last one too!!
Lisa in Katy said:
This isn't great news, but at least you will be better prepared this time. Any chance they will be able to do minimally invasive instead of the whole chest-splitting thing?
I have not read or heard of being able to replace as much of the aorta as is being discussed with me by any means other than OHS. I have heard before of going in through the back for aortic work just below the arch. That wouldn?t work for me, we want to get an up close and personal look at the valves while we are in there. I am, at this point, hoping that the tissue valves will be able to be re-implanted and be left with my Ross.
Lisa in Katy said:
When my brother had his aortic valve replaced almost 14 years ago, they put in a mechanical with the root attached. Is this what the doctor is thinking when he is talking about what to do with the valves? Is it possible to replace the root with a tissue valve, or must it be mechanical?
I have both mechanical and tissue as options (on top of the re-implanting) .
One option mentioned was in fact a mechanical that already has the new aortic arch attached to it. I kept Dr. P very busy with my questions last week. We spent quite a bit of time in his office. Almost an hour and ½. He was late for a procedure when we left.