Hi Kay,
I had my aortic valve replaced on July 14, 2004 and I am living proof that an average Joe (although my name is Mark) can go through this ordeal and 4 months later be back at work and hardly even think about the operation at all. I feel great, have been back to work since Sept. 1st and can hardly even see the incision any more.
The key for me was having this great website as a reference, reading everything I could get my hands on pertaining to valve selection (I went with the pig to avoid Coumadin even though I am 54 years old and the surgeon thought I should go with the mechanical valve), and allowing everyone to take care of me the first two months post op. Having the website, a great surgeon, a great family and wonderful friends made the difference.
You will do great.......best of luck....I'll be thinking of you!