Right now it looks like I'll be having my surgery on Friday, May 25th. I'm not sure if I like the idea of waiting that long, but it actually works out for the best with work. I have that following Monday off, so I'd end up missing fewer days of work, plus it will give me more time before leaving to get things finalized. We plan to leave Wednesday morning (driving) so we can be there by Thursday. I'll (most likely) go into the hospital bright and early in the morning for the surgery, then (hopefully) be released on Saturday. Depending on how I feel we might leave that day, or we might leave on Sunday, making it home on Monday. Probably wouldn't be able to go to work on Tuesday, but maybe Wed-Fri (which is the end of school).
Of course, there's no point in making plans, as every plan I've made thus far has been ruined by this stupid ICD. I had planned to leave MN the first time on Thursday, then ended up stuck there until Tuesday. I had planned on having my summer to spend with my nephew, then the wire stopped capturing. So the plan changed to having surgery the 2nd week of June so I could meet my nephew, then have the surgery, attend my FIL's 50th birthday, and be recovered enough to take care of my nephew in July. Then the wire got worse... So now I don't know why I am even trying to make plans. There's no way they will go my way. I am obviously not in control. Guess I should just give up and give in to whatever is planned for me... But I REALLY want to be able to see my nephew when (or at least shortly after) he is born!
Of course, there's no point in making plans, as every plan I've made thus far has been ruined by this stupid ICD. I had planned to leave MN the first time on Thursday, then ended up stuck there until Tuesday. I had planned on having my summer to spend with my nephew, then the wire stopped capturing. So the plan changed to having surgery the 2nd week of June so I could meet my nephew, then have the surgery, attend my FIL's 50th birthday, and be recovered enough to take care of my nephew in July. Then the wire got worse... So now I don't know why I am even trying to make plans. There's no way they will go my way. I am obviously not in control. Guess I should just give up and give in to whatever is planned for me... But I REALLY want to be able to see my nephew when (or at least shortly after) he is born!