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John Cochran
Swill,
The "waiting room" is truly no fun, and I thought it would drive me nuts, but we all managed to get through it; I'll try to tell you some things that helped me. First, fatigue is certainly a sign of severe aortic insufficiency, and the anxiety and anticipation of surgery doesn't help a person rest well, so more fatigue!
The good news is that, once you've gotten through your surgery, your energy level will soar! In addition, the waiting will be in the past, and you'll get your life back minus the anticipation of surgery! You'll feel and function better in every way (and I mean in every way). You may have seen others here write about how life on "the other side of the mountain" is truly grand, and it's really true.
In addition to having your health restored, you'll have a new perspective on life. Once you've gone through open heart surgery, most every thing else seems pretty easy. You'll be back to being able to enjoy the little things again, and able to plan some big things too, with the knowledge that you'll have the health and stamina to do what ever you want!
In the mean time, I second Nancy's advice to hold off on the caffeine and cold medications until your cardiologist gives you the OK. However, your body will adjust shortly to the lack of caffeine, and your anxiety level will be lower if you can stay off the caffeine.
Jennie, whose surgery preceded mine by a bit, gave me some really good advice that worked for getting through this: Take each day (and each event associated with this surgery) one at a time. Just be focused on that one day or that one thing you need to get through, and before you know it, it's all done!
We're all here to help you get through this, and you will!
Best,
--John
The "waiting room" is truly no fun, and I thought it would drive me nuts, but we all managed to get through it; I'll try to tell you some things that helped me. First, fatigue is certainly a sign of severe aortic insufficiency, and the anxiety and anticipation of surgery doesn't help a person rest well, so more fatigue!
The good news is that, once you've gotten through your surgery, your energy level will soar! In addition, the waiting will be in the past, and you'll get your life back minus the anticipation of surgery! You'll feel and function better in every way (and I mean in every way). You may have seen others here write about how life on "the other side of the mountain" is truly grand, and it's really true.
In addition to having your health restored, you'll have a new perspective on life. Once you've gone through open heart surgery, most every thing else seems pretty easy. You'll be back to being able to enjoy the little things again, and able to plan some big things too, with the knowledge that you'll have the health and stamina to do what ever you want!
In the mean time, I second Nancy's advice to hold off on the caffeine and cold medications until your cardiologist gives you the OK. However, your body will adjust shortly to the lack of caffeine, and your anxiety level will be lower if you can stay off the caffeine.
Jennie, whose surgery preceded mine by a bit, gave me some really good advice that worked for getting through this: Take each day (and each event associated with this surgery) one at a time. Just be focused on that one day or that one thing you need to get through, and before you know it, it's all done!
We're all here to help you get through this, and you will!
Best,
--John