Kip, yes, indeed, having a date does seem make the experience seem real. Now you have a time frame to plan around. This is a good time to begin planning the early part of your recovery and putting in place the network of people who will help you along the way. I planned what I was taking to the hospital and got everything ready several days before surgery. When I woke up after leaving the ICU, I was quite uninterested in TV, the books I brought, the drawing tools. Pretty much the only things I used were the clothes and my MP3 player. For those first few days I just couldn't concentrate on any of them. I found it very nice after the ICU to take a shower and change into my own soft clothes and house shoes. Take care.
Larry