Thank you all. I really thought we would be done with all this by now. The last time I had this done was in 1993. I was 13 and my parents had to handle this end of it. Something to be said about the innocence of being a child
Dornole: I doctor at Children's Hospital in Omaha, NE, but will have surgery at the University of Nebraska Medical Center in Omaha. They are the best in this area, but not the best in the country. The one thing I like is that the surgeon is the same one who did my MVR in 1993, and he has been great with me. I did have a great experience at Mayo in Rochester, MN when I had my brain surgery in 2002, so I have no fear going there again. The longer the Omaha hospital gives me the run-around, the more I want to go to Mayo.
My husband and I have a preschooler and a 4th grader. The hubby works full time. I work 2 days a week, but am off now, because I am unable to work with my heart this way. I will go back after recovering from surgery. So, right now we are busy every day with work, kids' activities, etc. I know this is my main hold-up with calling Mayo's myself and making an appointment. I am on the road 2 hours a day driving the kids to and from school. Then there are sports and activities on top of that. My husband has said, do what you have to do to get better and we will figure out the kids and everything. As a mom, I still feel responsible for getting them where they need to be. But, I have great friends and family and know everyone will be taken care of. Plus, being tired and out of breath hasn't helped me get anything done quickly. Today, I'm hoping to get some heart related articles printed and put in a folder. Then tomorrow, I need to call Omaha and demand that something get done quickly or demand they call Mayo and get me a quick appointment. I'm going to stress how bad things really are, and ask them to increase my diuretics and put me on oxygen at night time. This whole thing makes me want to curse, but I'll refrain. I was telling a coworker back in September, that I wanted on oxygen at night time, because I kept waking up out of breath. It's now December, and they want me to wait a few more months. Hmm September was when I finally called and told them they had to do something. They put me on 20mg of Lasix then. Since then they have added 50mg Spironolactone and upped my Lasix to 40mg. (I just changed it to 60mg yesterday
) The only reason they put me on any diuretics and increased them was because I called them and complained. They told me on Nov 2nd to start a daily weight log, because I complained of fluid. I have been keeping the weight log since the morning of nov 3. They did not tell me what to report. They gave me no guidelines of how much weight gain is too much, or anything. And, they have never asked about my weight log. They probably don't even know I have it..haha I'm less than impressed. I've also read about limiting your sodium when selling, and making sure you get enough potassium when on Lasix. The internet told me these things, as my doctor has said none of this. Again, I fired him, but as far as I know they haven't really told him. When I got my INR drawn Wednesday, Dr. Cramer's nurse called me with my results, as usual. So, he is probably still my doctor......crazy!
I don't know what to make of any of this. Everyone is in disbelief and can't understand why they keep pushing it back. I honestly think they are scared of the surgery. Not only because of it being the third MVR, but because I have had a prior brain surgery. Also, when I had symptoms of two TIAs within the last year, Dr. Cramer said it couldn't be cardiac related and I needed to go to neurology. I haven't had seizures in 15 years, and I am almost 100% sure this is cardiac related and has nothing to do with neurology. But, the fact that the doctor said it's brain related is making everyone scared. He also told me to exercise and I would feel better, when I told him I was short of breath on my back and with activity. There's a long list of reasons I am not impressed with him. lol
Also, since I have had a mechanical valve and an enlarged left atrium since the age of 2, my heart has learned to adapt to things in a different way. So, my symptoms showed up on the tests later than a lot of patients. That's one hold-up. And, I'm 37 and have always liked to run and workout, so, I appear to be doing better than I am. As a mom, I still have to run my kids to school, to Cub Scouts, etc. I can't just lay in bed all day. This gives the appearance that I am doing fine. I am out of breath sitting down, but I can still walk up a flight of stairs without taking a break in the middle. I am not willing to get that bad before they do something.
Sorry, that was too much to write. Right now, this is consuming me, and many of you understand. I am normally active and on the go, but for the last few months I have been spending my days sitting in a recliner as much as possible watching movies and such. And, I can't stand watching tv. I've been making the most of and watching old movies that I've never seen. Hoping to have this all behind me soon, and back to my normal life. The good news is that my heart itself is very strong. Once we replace this valve, the heart should be back to working great. Then I can get back to running and lifting weights.
Hope you all are doing great and having a great week! It's Sunday morning here. The hubby and son went to Kansas to deer hunt, so me and the little one are just hanging out doing puzzles and watching a movie.