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In addition to help with any critters, the recliner (please go to a large LaZboy store and try them out so you get one that fits you), laptop, the following help:

A small stool or chair for the shower - for the first week or so - you'll want to shower as soon as you get home, but the hot water makes you feel kindof lightheaded; so sitting is better.

DVD's of various shows or movies. Concentrating is a real issue at first, so I found that light TV shows were easier to follow than movies.

A body pillow for bed; recliner's nice, bed's better, and the body pillow can make the difference in enabling you to sleep in bed.

A non-spill tippee cup for bed; get a plastic container and put the cup of water and your pain meds (and tissues and whatever) in the container on the bed next to your pillow - if you out-sleep your pain meds you can take them with minimal fuss and strain.

Keep a cell phone with you always - in your pocket, in your container in bed.

Have someone home with you for the first two weeks out of the hospital. Then convince him/her to leave for a while each day afterwards. Your care-giver will want to hover, and it's quite annoying.

A few extras to consider for the hospital:

Your own pillow and extra cases. There's no such thing as a hospital pillow that's "just right."

Oranges or tangerines - taste really good between meals (well, as good as anything tastes post-surgically).

Dry shampoo (although available in some hospitals). Your hair will smell horrid after a couple of days - all those chemicals come out.

And incidentally - in case no one's mentioned it: your hair will be a problem for about 6 months after surgery - it may thin, it will grow really slowly, and the texture will be awful. I guess because your body's healing . . . But it WILL start growing again and get back to normal, so don't panic.

You'll want very comfortable clothes for recuperation, much warmer than you'd expect to need. You'll be really cold for quite a while (weeks or months). Have a warm throw to use when in the recliner.

Girls: before surgery, purchase a couple of very soft, lightweight bras a size larger than you wear (unless you really don't need one). You DON'T want to have much constriction around that sternotomy.

Get some vitamin E oil to use on the sternotomy every day - it may help with scarring - definitely helps with itching and drying.

Do NOT expose the incision to sunlight - at this time of year you could really burn it.

Good luck. We'll all be thinking and praying for you.
 
Mary,

Cute, real cute :D :D :D . I hope you were not one of my teachers :eek: :eek: . Hits (pun intended) too close to home. I came through school when they believed "spare the rod, spoil the child" :eek: :eek: :eek: . Had my share of Principal visits :D :D . The woodmaking shop even made up a special paddle for him. It looked huge and hurt even worse. I even remember my typing teacher (who could forget :eek: ) walking around with a ruler and hitting you across the knuckles if you were making mistakes or just talking instead of typing :mad: :) :D . Guess that is why I can type (or used to) 60 wpm :D . Ouch :eek: :eek: :eek: !!!!!!!!

I will walk the straight and narrow from now on, until my next post :D :D :D .

May God Bless,

Danny
 
Lisa,

I will have to say sorry for helping highjack your Thread. It seems to happen too often here in the family :D :D :D . At least no one brought up SEX, YET :eek: :eek: :eek: .

Looks like you've gotten some good recommendations so far. Any recliner will do, you don't need an "automatic" :D . As others have said, build a nest for your return. For the first couple of weeks you won't feel like doing too much (of course as you can see from postings here--each person heals differently). Have someone there (if possible) with you to help out.

And try to line up someone to post your successful completion of surgery. Da Family always worries about one of our own. And watch out for that second initiation party (Sorry, Oh Great One :p ----OUCH, OUCH, Mary please stop :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek: )

May God Bless,

Danny
 
You may want to check out the "Hospital Hints" thread for suggestions on how to deal with hospital stays.

I had my mitral valve replaced with a St. Jude's. While I don't place it among the more pleasant experiences of my life, nor do I place it among the worst, and I spent my post-op time at home, alone, without a recliner or any other special accommodations.

I hope you like to read. It was my salvation. If so, get a number of good books for your hospital stay and for your post-op period.
 
Georgia said:
Have someone home with you for the first two weeks out of the hospital. Then convince him/her to leave for a while each day afterwards. Your care-giver will want to hover, and it's quite annoying.

LOL! Georgia, my dear, I could actually HEAR you saying this...in your own special tone...as I read it :). BUT...it is sssssoooo very true. Why do you all think I stayed up until midnight to drive for the very first time after my last surgery?! ;)

Liza,
From what I could tell, you haven't mentioned family/friends very much, so I certainly hope you have someone to help take care of you when you first return home. It DOES help, but as Georgia so eloquently put it, it gets a bit annoying when they start to "hover" and try to assist you with every little thing.....

Good luck! Thoughts/prayers coming your way.


Cort, "Mr MC" / "Mr Road Trip", 31swm/pig valve/pacemaker
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MC Guide = http://www.chevyasylum.com/mcspotter/main.html
"We got mountains to climb" ... Rod Stewart ... 'Broken Arrow'
 
Hey everyone!

Thanks for the great advice and support. I really appreciate it during this rough time. I just finished my last midterm, so now it's nothing but think about the upcoming surgery. I'm going to go stay with my parents after my surgery, so I'm VERY lucky to have some help. I'll keep the "hovering problem" in mind though. :) I just hate so much to depend on people, but that's what family is for. (I'll owe all of them BIGTIME after this!)

I do have one more question (well, probably one more of many, hehe!). This "pumphead" phenomenon...how bad is it? I want to try to finish up my quarter during the summer, but I am planning on not being able to focus for awhile afterwards. I'm just wondering how long the brain fogginess seems to last. Any extra insight would be wonderful.

Thanks again everyone, you guys are making me feel so much better! I'll be sure to have my mom or one of my sisters post something here afterwards to give you up an update. As for now, the waiting continues...

Liza, T - 9 days :eek:
 
You may well not have any pumphead. It's one of those things that may affect some, but not others. Nothing to really worry about there, you'll be fine. Now it is going to take some time to get the anesthesia out of your system. The more you can walk and get small amounts of excercise, the faster that stuff is worked out of the body. You can plan on no real mental focus for 2 weeks or so. You may get lucky and be with the program from the get go, but plan on 2 anyway.
 
My second surgery was almost ten years ago and I haven't headed pump problem at all any noticed!
Ross is right...give it a couple weeks. You'll be fine!
 
liza said:
This "pumphead" phenomenon...how bad is it?

I've actually felt a positive change -- in my ability to concentrate for one -- I was able to read and write almost immediately after surgery, the main problem for me was I didnt feel like going back to work until around 3 months after the surgery. You might do better since you have a sort of deadline -- although I wouldnt stress out too much in the first couple of months....
 
Seems to me that a study was recently posted (by allodwick?) that found that the "pumphead" syndrome really didn't hold up under scientific scrutiny.
 
liza said:
Thanks for the great advice and support. I really appreciate it during this rough time. I just finished my last midterm, so now it's nothing but think about the upcoming surgery. I'm going to go stay with my parents after my surgery, so I'm VERY lucky to have some help. I'll keep the "hovering problem" in mind though. :) I just hate so much to depend on people, but that's what family is for. (I'll owe all of them BIGTIME after this!)

Ah, I nice steak dinner will do just fine ;).

I know what you mean about hating to depend on people...but, sometimes, you gotta do what ya gotta do....

Hope those midterms weren't too bad for ya.


liza said:
Thanks again everyone, you guys are making me feel so much better! I'll be sure to have my mom or one of my sisters post something here afterwards to give you up an update. As for now, the waiting continues...

Ah, yes...the waiting. Such a lovely time....

*rolls eyes*

About as much fun as having work done on your teeth.

But, seriously...ENJOY the next few days...get out...have some fun...road trip...etc. etc. etc.

And, yes, someone better post for you...or, I suspect we'll send Ross out to hunt you down ;).


Cort, "Mr MC" / "Mr Road Trip", 31swm/pig valve/pacemaker
'72,6,9/'81,7.hobbies.chdQB = http://www.chevyasylum.com/cort/
MC Guide = http://www.chevyasylum.com/mcspotter/main.html
"Someday tomorrow will smile" ... Oak Ridge Boys ... 'Dream On'
 
Welcome!

Welcome!

Liza,

Just wanted to add my welcome to the club! You've gotten some great advice on this thread -- about choice of valve if you plan to have kids, and about preparations for the surgery, etc.

I'll just chime in that I don't know how I would have gotten along for the first month or so without a comfortable recliner. And much as my grandchildren got a laugh out of old Pop-Pop having his own "sippee cup," just having that non-spillable cup with ice water that I could grab in the middle of the night was a big help. My wonderful daughter also set me up with wireless Internet -- that's optional but it was a neat treat. She posted to Vr.Com right after my OHS and then when I got home in five days, I could write to my (mended) heart's content.

Do keep in touch. I am sure that you will do very well.

Cheers,

Bob
 
I'm skeptical about the self serving report that the 'pumphead' effect is 'all in your head' (pun intended).

I recall reading that raising the body temperature more slowly (by 5 or 10 minutes?) can help prevent the 'pumphead' effect (by allowing the brain to return to normal temperature more gradually).

My AVR surgeon also suggested that the quality of the FILTERS on the heart-lung machine can be a factor as well. He mentioned that his hospital used the 'Best' filters.

'AL Capshaw'
 
Whoa.........

Whoa.........

:eek: I really need to slow down reading my posts............I was skimming your post and thought it said that a second year veterinarian student was going to operate on your mitral valve!!! :D Definitely had to go back and reread a bit.............heehee!

Okay, as the mother of a four year old who is about to undergo her fourth open heart surgery, I just wanted to send you my support and my two cents. My daughter has complex heart defects and is about to undergo a fontan procedure along with a valve replacement for her common AV valve (mitral and tricuspid are merged as one). I recently e-mailed her surgeon and he said that a tissue valve was an option, just not a good one for us. He said that tissue valves just do not last in the mitral position in children, and we would be lucky to get five years out of it. Even knowing that, I would choose a tissue valve IF this was Katie's first surgery...........just to get her past her rambunctious stage - she is quite the little tomboy and we have already had two trips to the ER without being on coumadin. (THese guys have made me feel a lot better about coumadin, but I still hate the thought of it...........sigh!) Anyway, since she has had numerous surgeries, each one poses an increased risk due to the buildup of scar tissue - in addition to the "normal" risks associated with OHS - and we just can't risk a tissue valve that would definitely lead to a fifth OHS in the near future. A mechanical is no guarantee of no future surgeries, but our odds are a lot better.

In your case, if I were you, or you were my daughter, I would have to also opt for that tissue valve.............this will hopefully buy you enough time to find that right person and have children without the added complication of coumadin............as long as you realize that there will be another surgery in your future, and you are willing to accept that risk. This is only my two cents, and I know that you are smart enough to know that none of us here can make that decision for you. You have to go with what is in your "heart" - no pun intended - and what is right for you.

Good luck in your decision making and please keep us posted. Hugs. Janet
 
Liza,

I didn't have any fogginess or cognitive difficulties after surgery (except for that one week of rather interesting drug-induced hallucinations in ICU). I did have some difficulty using English, which is my second language, but I had no problem with my first language so I wasn't sure what that was. It could've been due to the stroke rather than the surgery itself. Nonetheless, by the third month, I was writing make-up papers for Physiology without a problem. And it wasn't that I couldn't focus until three months after surgery; first month I was in rehab playing Bingo, and after that, I was just procrastinating...

Hopefully this helps! Glad to hear your midterms are over.
 
Just a couple of thoughts about making things easier on yourself post-op.

Pre-pay bills if at all possible
Make sure you have postage stamps in the house
Stock extra toilet paper, soap, and other household products
Have cough drops handy. (coughing hurts)


I had my mitral valve replaced via a heartport procedure across the right side of my chest and was restricted in use of that arm for several days. I just remember it made use of my recliner a little cumbersome. The lever sometimes requires a bit of a pull.
 
What do you guys think about bringing a button down shirt along for when we are coming home from the hospital? I would think it may be hard to lift our arms into t-shirts.
Any insight?
 
Well, this will probably be my last time logging before my "initiation." ;) I can't believe it's tomorrow already! Please cross your fingers for me that my doctor can repair my valve instead of replace it. I'll see ya'll on the other side soon! :eek:

Liza
 
Good Luck Liza! I hope we hear from you before I go in next week, but if not, good luck on the recovery stage as well. I will see you on the other side!!
 

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