Sex after replacement--good, bad or indifferent?

[Ross]

 

[sue943]

It is almost eight years since I was last in a relationship so I just have to rely on my longterm memory not failing.

 

[tobagotwo]

Pun intended????

You should have seen what I edited out...

 

[hensylee]

Well, move closer then.

It works better this way.

The diminished have overtaken the better than ever.

 

[Mary]

The diminished have overtaken the better than ever.

I wonder what the break down is by men and women? I was a "better".

 

[hensylee]

me, too. Appreciation of all things after surgery, you know.

 

[Ross]

I wonder what the break down is by men and women? I was a "better".

I have a feeling I know. Your about the only woman I know that isn't turned off by sex.

 

[Karlynn]

I have a feeling I know. Your about the only woman I know that isn't turned off by sex.

Oh Ross, you are so jaded. There might be a few more out there.

 

[Ross]

Oh Ross, you are so jaded. There might be a few more out there.

Where? Just point them out and stand back.

 

[hensylee]

I once watched one of the royals' marriage on TV and said to my mother: All those royals in attendance are there because of sex. Aren't we all? It's the one thing we all have in common. Why are we so reluctant to talk about it? When I was growing up, I don't think the word 'sex' had been invented. It's heart healthy, you know.

 

[perkicar]

First in line LOL

First in line LOL

Where? Just point them out and stand back.

I had to vote "what's sexuality" due to the long time since my last relationship. I'm all for it otherwise, but find as I get older I'd rather have the closeness and cuddling that Granbonny talks about. Just a nice chest to lay my head on would be OK, anything more is just gravy!

 

[Ross]

I had to vote "what's sexuality" due to the long time since my last relationship. I'm all for it otherwise, but find as I get older I'd rather have the closeness and cuddling that Granbonny talks about. Just a nice chest to lay my head on would be OK, anything more is just gravy!

Well I have a chest. More is better and heck, downright needed.

 

[Robert Alan]

Stiff Neck

Stiff Neck

In response to all the posts concerning sex, aneurisms, and extended aortas...Well, I recently had to swear off Viagra because the last one I took got stuck in my throat and my neck was stiff for more than four hours!!

Robert Alan - Age 51
Surgery is scheduled for first week of March 2007
Duke Medical Center - Dr. Chad Hughes
Hopefully a Valve Saving Aortic Root Replacement
Considering the On-X as the valve of choice, just in case
replacement is necessary

 

[hensylee]

that's so funny. ROFL

 

[mntbiker]

I am not sure how to answer this, my sex life is better then ever but my wife will tell you hers is the same as before...

TMI!!!!! TMI!!!!!

 

[BDMc]

For Years...

For Years...

It was great for years. Now it's none existent. I haven't had the time to find someone, or develop a relationship. I have periodic misadventures. I have an online personal add, that had been up for months, when I got a response from a very attractive woman. The irony was that after the second date, I think I was dumped for being too much of a gentleman, and not getting down to business. She didn't want a relationship, just her "needs" taken care of. The "perfect woman", and I blew it! Brian

 

[Turkey Hunter]

I have to agree with Robthatsme;
the drive or desire can be non-existent when on certain meds.
So I voted------------ What's sexuality??
And with my age, the age causing some lack of desire shouldn't even be considered.

Ben

 

[MikeB]

Its been better than every, mostly because I can last longer now without getting winded! LOL

 

[MarkU]

Being brutally honest, it's been non-existent since my surgery six years ago. Nothing to do with my AVR. My spouse lost interest long before and my surgery just became another excuse. Don't like it, but don't what I can do about it.
Mark