Ella4hubby
Well-known member
Hello All,
My husband and I are still awaiting a call for DH's Mitral Valve Replacement surgery....this waiting is no fun at all!
Anyhow, I was told during DH's preop session that I could stay the first night after surgery with my husband in the ICU...I am wondering on what people's thoughts and experiences are on this.
We live about 35-40 mins drive (outside of traffic times) from the hospital, so technically I could go home each night. I am undecided about staying that first night, as I assume I will not get much of any sleep--my understanding is that staff will be doing one thing or another every hour if not more often...I assume lights remain on and noise will be a factor. The nurse who mentioned this to me also said that I could possibly rest in a room nearby (?)...will have to go check that out perhaps while waiting during surgery time.
I am struggling with some health problems of my own, specifically low thyroid function, and if I don't get sleep, I may not be much of any support or encouragement to my husband...
In the meantime, I've set up a small bag just in case I do end up staying overnight....
What have others done? Experiences? Suggestions?
My husband and I are still awaiting a call for DH's Mitral Valve Replacement surgery....this waiting is no fun at all!
Anyhow, I was told during DH's preop session that I could stay the first night after surgery with my husband in the ICU...I am wondering on what people's thoughts and experiences are on this.
We live about 35-40 mins drive (outside of traffic times) from the hospital, so technically I could go home each night. I am undecided about staying that first night, as I assume I will not get much of any sleep--my understanding is that staff will be doing one thing or another every hour if not more often...I assume lights remain on and noise will be a factor. The nurse who mentioned this to me also said that I could possibly rest in a room nearby (?)...will have to go check that out perhaps while waiting during surgery time.
I am struggling with some health problems of my own, specifically low thyroid function, and if I don't get sleep, I may not be much of any support or encouragement to my husband...
In the meantime, I've set up a small bag just in case I do end up staying overnight....
What have others done? Experiences? Suggestions?