Lorraine
Well-known member
I'm very vigilant too. I want to know everything that is being done. Why its being done. What to expect. Don't want know surprises. I try to research as best I can. I always ask questions and expect an answer. This is my body and I want to know everything thats happening. I have family and friends that will tell me they went to the doctor for a checkup. I'll ask them , so what was your blood pressure? They look at me and say, I don't know, the nurse didn't tell me. I'll say "Did you ask"? They'll tell me "No, I figured if the nurse wanted me to know or if was too high or to low they will tell me" Thats when I blow a gasket with them. I'll say, "First of all the doctors and nurses are working for you. Don't be afraid to ask any questions you want." I get appalled that someone won't even ask what their blood pressure or heart rate is. It's not a secret! They just listen and do what the doctors tell them. Anyway, just wanted add my two cents, even though for some reason I can't vote in the poll. Why would that be? Ross?