Hey
@tjay,
Thanks for sharing your story. It’s similar to mine in lots of ways. My pre op valve was initially regurg and then added stenosis later. I also had a mechanical bentalls with ascending aorta and ended up with a pericardial effusion.
How are you finding your running? I’m 13 weeks post op and struggling to keep my HR low. For example, the week before my op I done my usual 2 laps around the park - 7.4km in 42 mins with average HR 136bpm. This morning I done the same run in 49 mins with HR average of 145 and I struggled.
My resting HR is similar to pre op at 56 and I’m off all beta blockers.
Are you finding it hard to keep your HR low when exercising?
Jeff, I think you're getting too worried for nothing

What I read is good stuff stuff in your post. For example, "ONLY 13 weeks or 3 months" and you're able to do what you were doing before surgery in terms of (longer) distance, even if at a bit slower pace. And you're not talking about walk in the park, you're "running" around the park, and not 1 or 2 miles, rather "7.4 kms or 4.62 miles".... and that too at a very respectful pace (of 10:30 min/mile compared to 9 min/mile before surgery). You are doing amazing.
Nothing comes easy at this point (3 months post-op). Of course it would be more tiring and taxing. The fact that you're trying to get back is already quite impressive. Your recovery is quite like mine. I was about 80-85% of my pre-surgery performance at 3 month mark post-op. My target was to get around 90% within 6 months which I accomplished too. You're essentially on the same trajectory. You will continue to improve every week and month, for the next few months. You will run the same distance in 42 mins with the same ease (or difficulty) again, and soon. Just keep doing what you're doing.
As far HR, mine would "dance" all over the place for the first several weeks, while running. It would all normalize. Your heart is still remodeling, and it's going to emerge better and stronger, thanks to your running shape pre-surgery, and the fact that you're challenging yourself cardiovascularly during the all-important post-op initial recovery phase. Those who (can) do what you're doing would be handsomely rewarded. You heart would emerge stronger and better than pre-surgery state. Stay on the course.
The fact that your RHR is already back to normal is a good sign. My theory is that taking your MHR higher for a sustained effort (e.g. for >20-30 mins which's only possible doing activities such as running) in the initial post-op recovery phase allows your RHR to drop to pre-surgery state too, and sooner. You're on that trajectory too.
I imagine you're using the same watch to track HR. The wrist watches (including Garmin) are not quite accurate, so you can always use the chest strap. But then again, if your HR while running is a bit elevated (and that you're more tired), remind yourself that you're only 3 month post-op, and doing what's very admirable already. Once again, mine was "dancing" while running (or may be my new Garmin watch wasn't accurate). I wish mine was stable like yours, even if it was a bit higher
I see lot of good news in your post-surgery performance and resolve, and nothing of concern

... Keep it up, and all the best.