emfields
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- Jul 21, 2021
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Hi I’m from Yorkshire, UK.
It is lovely to meet you all!
I am currently looking for a honest insight/reassurance regarding mitral valve replacement/repair surgery.
My dad is 58 years old and is awaiting surgery which is scheduled for 29/07/2021 at Sheffield’s Northern General Hospital in the Chestermans department. (He has been waiting over a year due to Covid-19.) Also, I am not quite sure if he is having a replacement or repair.
If I am completely honest (and this is quite selfish of me) I am very very nervous and I cannot take my mind off it. Understandably, you always think of the worse and I am an over thinker at the best of times, but I am also worried because I know deep down my dad is also worried and for the first time in his life I think he is scared.
if anyone could offer a glimpse of their experience and any recommendations/tips for after the surgery that would be amazing and greatly appreciated.
As I have said, I am just really nervous for him and I do not know what I would do if anything was to happen to him. The quicker this is over and done with the better. I also think this experience is harder because you are not allowed to visit.
any advice would be greatly appreciated, and for all you individuals who have had the surgery I salute you! You are so so so brave and I admire you!
best wishes to anyone reading this & stay safe, em
It is lovely to meet you all!
I am currently looking for a honest insight/reassurance regarding mitral valve replacement/repair surgery.
My dad is 58 years old and is awaiting surgery which is scheduled for 29/07/2021 at Sheffield’s Northern General Hospital in the Chestermans department. (He has been waiting over a year due to Covid-19.) Also, I am not quite sure if he is having a replacement or repair.
If I am completely honest (and this is quite selfish of me) I am very very nervous and I cannot take my mind off it. Understandably, you always think of the worse and I am an over thinker at the best of times, but I am also worried because I know deep down my dad is also worried and for the first time in his life I think he is scared.
if anyone could offer a glimpse of their experience and any recommendations/tips for after the surgery that would be amazing and greatly appreciated.
As I have said, I am just really nervous for him and I do not know what I would do if anything was to happen to him. The quicker this is over and done with the better. I also think this experience is harder because you are not allowed to visit.
any advice would be greatly appreciated, and for all you individuals who have had the surgery I salute you! You are so so so brave and I admire you!
best wishes to anyone reading this & stay safe, em