Thanks, Norma, for starting this thread. I was thinking about Lori all day yesterday too. She did say that her husband would post but I can tell you from recent first hand experience that the first day is quite overwhelming for the family members (while you guys get to sleep through most of it!). Hopefully he will get a chance to post later today and if he sees this thread that may make it a little easier for him. Don't know if he has much experience posting on forums but that can be a little overwhelming too if you have never done it before and are dealing with a lot of other stuff at the same time. Hope her son is doing well and gets to see her soon also - I know she was concerned about that.
Nadine