Hi
I get the feeling from your posts that you had somehow been worried that your husband will be transformed to "the living dead" by his surgery and will become a (insert black and white silent movie era organ chord)
a heart patient. To be honest nothing could be further from the truth.
This surgery is (no exaggeration) the most successful surgical procedure known to man (TAVI excluded) and more or less repairs the only thing wrong with you and that is the bung valve.
As a
a heart patient myself I've had to struggle with everyone (except the surgeons) to convince them that there is nothing wrong with me. You should have (barring issues in surgery which are uncommon) a full and complete recovery PLUS more or less back to a few years before that when he had symptoms but you weren't really sure.
Here on this site you'll find people who after their surgery continue their sports such as:
- power lifting
- competitive running
- competitive surf paddle events
- motorcycle racing
I myself have continued to live a more active life than most of the loafers on couches watching DVD's and munching chips.
I just today posted a link to a story about a woman who climbed Mt Everest (yes, Mt Everest) after her valve surgery. Here is the link to that post
http://www.valvereplacement.org/foru...425#post864425
please read it
Its not a death sentence: its a life sentence!
I do not know where this attitude in the general public comes from, but its been a source of irritation to me all my life (yes all my life). I blame "educational documentaries" like General Hospital, Days of our Lives and other Soapies for forming this opinion.
Certainly its not without bumps in the road, but for the many its actually something like "wow, I never expected it would be this easy".
So please, do read around here and be assured that all is well in life after heart surgery.