Christian your son is beautiful. I know how it feels to be the one watching and worrying about someone you love go thru this, not my husband but son and since you have a baby I know you could imagine how that would be. so if you every need to vent or anything, I am usually hope so feel free to email me. I would call the insurance company to make sure about the private room too. also I would really recomend setting up a care page now, if you don't have some kind of family site. both carepage and caringbridge are free and it makes it so easy to give family and friend updates instead of getting tons of calls and it feels so good to read all the messages in the guestbook.plus it is a nice record to go back and reread since everything becomes a blurr. and heck it's a great place to show off more pics of your son ) If you decide to set one up please share the links, you are all in my prayers. Lyn www.caringbridge.org/nj/justinw