Annie, I don't want to add any stress to you and your husband but don't be afraid to search for a "second" opinion, maybe with a cardio and/or surgeon in another group. I was very ill and my husband and I were puzzled because a cardio told me I was "fine," despite my symptoms and bad echo reports. I finally decided that getting another opinion just wasn't a bad idea. We ended up going to another county. And when the first highly recommended surgeon I consulted with told me my valve was shot, I was really puzzled. I confirmed his opinion with two more highly recommended surgeons. We wanted to be sure. As it turned out, my valve was shot. That former cardio was wrong. Very badly wrong. Best wishes