Probably jumping in where I don't belong since I don't know anything about manis or pedis (I'm a guy). But I remember having the same question - should I do some more-than-normal man-scaping before surgery. Like you, I was keeping busy with things (projects around the house) leading up to surgery to keep my mind off things (which worked very well by the way). And I ended up not leaving enough time to shave before I left. Plus, I figured, what the heck, maybe it'll be fun to have the nurses do it. Turns out, at least at my hospital, they didn't shave "down there" at all. Shaved my chest and belly, and top of my thighs (not sure why they did that...) but nothing else. So, like someone else said, you might wanna check w/ them before doing "too much". I laugh now because one of the other things I had on my todo list (from reading this forum) was to trim my toenails right before surgery (which I did). Turns out I could have easily trimmed them again a few days after surgery. Maybe I'm not normal, but within a few days after surgery (I wanna say by day 3, if not day 2), I could reach everything on my body I could before surgery, which surprised me thinking I'd have a lot less mobility. But hey, if it keeps your mind off things to do all the prep - I say go for it! Anything to keep your mind pre-occupied going in is good!