Hey, all. I just really felt like writing. I'm not feeling real great today. I'm finally getting over being sick (URI), but have been having headaches for the past several days. I mostly attribute that to the fact that I teach middle schoolers, but I know that can't be all it is, since it isn't something that happens all the time. I've got a headache right now, and it didn't start until I'd gotten home. And right when I got home a strange thing happened. I reached for my stuff as I was getting out of the car and my ring finger and pinky went numb. It had been fine while I was driving, but suddenly felt very tingly like it was trying to wake up from being asleep. It still feels a little funny, but it's mostly back to normal. This happened another time about a month ago and when I talked to my card about it she said it was probably just a pinched nerve in my arm or something.
Another thing contributing to my feeling crummy is that I'm feeling very frustrated with my mechanical valve. It clicks WAY loud a lot of the time. I expect to hear it when I'm trying to get to sleep, or when it's quiet in the room, but today I could hear it in the car, with the radio going! And my INR levels are very frustrating, but I know will never be stable because of the doctors managing it (but I have to wait for my ProTime machine until I get my new insurance card, which I had hoped to have by now). I'm just really hating that I had this surgery right now. I know many of you say that you felt so much better after yours, but I don't feel any different. And that's the most frustrating of all. I'm not a vain person, and already had a scar from previous open heart surgery, but seeing the bright red scar in the mirror is frustrating because it feels like the only thing this surgery has done is make my life more complicated. I know I needed the surgery, but I also know that having the surgery is not going to make my heart "all better." I will continue to have problems and surgeries, and there is NOTHING I can do about it. This surgery was essentially to put off transplant a little longer, but I'm almost at the point where I'd rather just get the transplant over with if it's going to be inevitable anyway. Why waste our time with all these other surgeries?
I'm sorry, I'm just down in the dumps today. I know a lot of it can be contributed to post-surgery depression, but it's still hard. I just needed to vent a bit. Thanks for being here.
Another thing contributing to my feeling crummy is that I'm feeling very frustrated with my mechanical valve. It clicks WAY loud a lot of the time. I expect to hear it when I'm trying to get to sleep, or when it's quiet in the room, but today I could hear it in the car, with the radio going! And my INR levels are very frustrating, but I know will never be stable because of the doctors managing it (but I have to wait for my ProTime machine until I get my new insurance card, which I had hoped to have by now). I'm just really hating that I had this surgery right now. I know many of you say that you felt so much better after yours, but I don't feel any different. And that's the most frustrating of all. I'm not a vain person, and already had a scar from previous open heart surgery, but seeing the bright red scar in the mirror is frustrating because it feels like the only thing this surgery has done is make my life more complicated. I know I needed the surgery, but I also know that having the surgery is not going to make my heart "all better." I will continue to have problems and surgeries, and there is NOTHING I can do about it. This surgery was essentially to put off transplant a little longer, but I'm almost at the point where I'd rather just get the transplant over with if it's going to be inevitable anyway. Why waste our time with all these other surgeries?
I'm sorry, I'm just down in the dumps today. I know a lot of it can be contributed to post-surgery depression, but it's still hard. I just needed to vent a bit. Thanks for being here.