Astro
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Thanks for your all your thoughts. It has helped me to decide to organise scans for the kids. It is the safest way.
I am not saying that if they have a BAV, they should have it prophylactically replaced (which your mastectomy, hysterectomy example implies).Astro:
What would you DO with those scans? In most cases, bicuspid valves don't become a problem until adulthood (although we've had exceptions at this site). Would you pick the kids who have BAV and warn them that at some time they may need a new, intranasal valve repair that won't be available for decades? Would you give them a reason to curtail their daily activities because they 'have a bad heart valve'? Aside from seing that there may possibly be an issue, are you doing them that great a favor?
Would you just keep it in the back of your mind, for a day that may never come, and your kid may be exhibiting what could be symptoms of a bad valve? Or would you subject them to echos every five years or so?
I'm not quite clear about how this is the 'safest way.'
Enlighten me.
(I have a friend whose daughter died suddenly from a brain aneurism. He had one, and it enlarged, and, fortunately had a great doctor and exceptionally good medical and rehab team. It took a while but he's doing fine.
They tested his remaining son, and I think may have tested his grandchildren, but the question is: what do you do with this information if son or grandkids have a small aneurism? You certainly don't want to do brain surgery to fix the aneurism. You can watch it. You can, perhaps, help to keep them low stress (and, thus, change their lives). You can, maybe, get a grain scan or other diagnostic test every few years - but what if the aneurism worsens between tests? There are some things that, even if you know it exists, there's not a lot you can do about it.
Is a double mastectomy, hysterectomy and oopherectomy the right way to avoid breast cancer if your mother had it and you both share a genetic marker? )
Again, I'm not sure how knowing that one of your kids has BAV will be of much more value than not knowing.
Astro:
What would you DO with those scans?....snip
Is a double mastectomy, hysterectomy and oopherectomy the right way to avoid breast cancer if your mother had it and you both share a genetic marker? )
Again, I'm not sure how knowing that one of your kids has BAV will be of much more value than not knowing.
I believe it is a vexing issue. My view that it may be passed to any children I may have bothered me in my 20's (having lived through difficult times in my early teen years because of it.I view this as a difficult topic where people have differing opinions.
secondedIgnorance may be bliss when nothing goes wrong, but it’s awful painful if just a little knowledge could have avoided tragedy.
I'm not sure if you saw my reply on another threadThey are compelling arguments
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