Hello everyone!
I just discovered this forum after my cardiologist told me I am a high risk patient for pregnancy due to my heart condition.
Here is some background: I am a 32 year old female. I was born with mitral valve stenosis so it is congenital. I was told all my life that my condition is of mild form and I won’t need surgery until I am very old. I was also told it is quite rare to be born with mitral stenosis as most develop this condtion after a rheumatic fever.
Throughout my life i’ve been cautious of my condition, but it never stopped me from doing regular physical activities like working out or hiking. I consider myself pretty normal - but i have random palpitations when I intake too much caffeine or when I am aboit to get my period.. but this usually subsides with no issues. Once in a while my heart would start racing in the middle of the night but this is usually rare.
I recently got married back in July and my husband and I are ready to start a family… I was so excited until my new cardiologist told me I am a high risk patient and to hold off on pregnancy until we do further testing. This made me really sad as I started thinking about the risks and the worst case scenarios… I was diagnosed with a mild form of stenosis but she said I am actually considered moderate as definitions has changed throughout the years.
I want to bear my old child as I do not have money for surrogacy.
But from what I understand here are my options along with the risks:
- get pregnant but will have to take medication that might affect the growth of my baby (risk of premature, retardation, etc) … and my heart will have to work extra hard and the condtion might actually get worse
- do a repair or replacement before pregnancy. my doctor hasn’t suggested this yet as we’re still observing the situation.
i’m just very lost and confused on what to do here. i am scheduled for a stress test next month. shoukd i ask for the balloon valve repair? i know not everyone is a candidate. but i don’t know if it’s worth doing an open heart surgery just to have a baby. part of me says it will be worth it…
any advice would be appreciated
I just discovered this forum after my cardiologist told me I am a high risk patient for pregnancy due to my heart condition.
Here is some background: I am a 32 year old female. I was born with mitral valve stenosis so it is congenital. I was told all my life that my condition is of mild form and I won’t need surgery until I am very old. I was also told it is quite rare to be born with mitral stenosis as most develop this condtion after a rheumatic fever.
Throughout my life i’ve been cautious of my condition, but it never stopped me from doing regular physical activities like working out or hiking. I consider myself pretty normal - but i have random palpitations when I intake too much caffeine or when I am aboit to get my period.. but this usually subsides with no issues. Once in a while my heart would start racing in the middle of the night but this is usually rare.
I recently got married back in July and my husband and I are ready to start a family… I was so excited until my new cardiologist told me I am a high risk patient and to hold off on pregnancy until we do further testing. This made me really sad as I started thinking about the risks and the worst case scenarios… I was diagnosed with a mild form of stenosis but she said I am actually considered moderate as definitions has changed throughout the years.
I want to bear my old child as I do not have money for surrogacy.
But from what I understand here are my options along with the risks:
- get pregnant but will have to take medication that might affect the growth of my baby (risk of premature, retardation, etc) … and my heart will have to work extra hard and the condtion might actually get worse
- do a repair or replacement before pregnancy. my doctor hasn’t suggested this yet as we’re still observing the situation.
i’m just very lost and confused on what to do here. i am scheduled for a stress test next month. shoukd i ask for the balloon valve repair? i know not everyone is a candidate. but i don’t know if it’s worth doing an open heart surgery just to have a baby. part of me says it will be worth it…
any advice would be appreciated