Kurt and Christine,
My thoughts and prayers will be with you tomorrow, and through the coming days. Christine, as an OHS patient, let me just repeat what I'm sure Kurt has already said: Your support and care and legwork is HUGE! I don't know that I'll ever find the words to express the value of a loved one's concern in a time like this.
RE: massage chair - my rehab people had what I would call a "percussive massager." They used it to thump on my back, post-op. Sounds terrible--feels wonderful!
One more thing - I have a very dear, life-long friend who lives in San Diego. I'm PMing you my contact info. If you guys need anything, ANYTHING, contact me and I'll have her on it ASAP! She'd love to help--trust me.
See ya on the flipside,
Marcia