In about a year, it went from 3.9 cm dilation to 5.3 cm. I just had an MRI done this week, and my cardiologist is supposed to have a conference with the surgeons today on the best course of action with what they find. He hasn't told me anything specific regarding whether I will actually have surgery and when it might be, but it seems like the only thing they are trying to decide on is whether or not to replace my valve while repairing the aneurysm. It's a lot to take in, and I'm extremely nervous and scared. In a year, things went from hoping to hold it off until I was maybe 30-40 to possibly going in before my 18th birthday.
Hello and welcome. Sorry you're joining us so early in life, but sometimes things just work out that way, unfortunately. I felt young at 35, and big picture, I was, but the age of intervention is different for everybody. There are many 20 year olds here, and parents of younger kids too.
My aneurysm situation was somewhat similar to you. I went in for a yearly echo at 35, still thinking I wouldn't need my bicuspid valve replaced for at least another 10 years or more, then out of nowhere, I had a 5.0 cm aneurysm. I was almost too shocked to even worry about how unfair it felt, and after quick follow up with a surgeon, I had surgery a month later. I did valve replacement also, but my bicuspid valve was already into moderate to severe territory. In your case, I imagine that aspect will be a tough decision. Sure, it's pretty "easy" to replace a valve while already in there to fix an aneurysm, but if the valve is being replaced prematurely, it may not always be the best long-term decision. But that's a conversation between you and your surgeon.
This takes some perspective, but the surgery really is not nearly as big a deal as you might assume initially. Also, while doing both aneurysm and valve replacement together added time to my surgery, additional risk was very insignificant. I'm around 1 year later now, and the best news for me is that I feel no different now than I did 6 months ago. I was back to normal a long long time ago. I did see your question about capabilities long term. In most cases, there are few if any restrictions. However, excessive heavy lifting might be one exception, partcularly in an aneurysm patient. It would be good to discuss that further with your doctor.
Preparation for surgery can certainly be chaotic and stressful, but at a certain stage, more likely than not, acceptance and calm will settle in and you'll actually just want to get it over with. No matter your age, there's never a good time. Mine actually happened while my wife was pregnant, third trimester, and we managed to work everything out just fine.
There's a wealth of information here, spend as much time as you can reviewing and asking questions. Much of my 4 weeks of preparation were spent educating myself here. Best wishes in the process for you, as you learn more what you need to do and when.