jds
Well-known member
Hello -
I had MVR surgery 5/23. Based on my experiences, here are a few things to do.
1. Get in good physical shape. Exercise as much as you can, stop smoking, stop drinking too much, get your weight to a healthy level, then exercise more. Being in good shape is the best thing you can do to speed and ease your recuperation. I did this and it has paid off many times over.
2. If you are having OHS, do flexibility exercises (stretches, yoga, ...) especially those that make your back more flexible. The surgery involves opening your sternum then bending you in ways your body is not designed to bend. Two weeks after surgery, I had more back pain than sternum pain. I believe that a flexible back would help a lot here. I did not do this and wish I had.
3. Talk to lots of people (this forum and other places) about what is going on. You will be amazed how many people have gone through this or had parents, siblings, friends, even children go through this. As our minister always says "Whatever you go through in life, you are not going through it alone." You might be shy about disclosing medical information. Get over it and you will get tremendous amounts of support. I did this and am really glad I did.
4. Line up your support system. My wife with friends at church, lined up meals for the first two weeks I was out of the hospital. Hospital food was OK but bland. The first night home from the hospital, we had spicey Ghanian Ground Nut stew. It was wonderful. Also, we did not need to worry about fixing dinner for that first two weeks. Don't forget thank you notes.
5. Maintain a positive and determined attitude. You are not a piece of meat and the main responsibility for your health and recovery is your own. Read funny books and do all your walks and then more. This is corrective surgery - you will be repaired when it is done and you have done your recuperation.
6. Remember your caregiver is going through this too. For the past many months (6 months for me), I was the focus of everything. For the first month out of the hospital, that remained the case. Your caregiver / spouse will be getting a little tired of all this. Recuperate fast for their sake and the sake of your relationship.
Keep a positive outlook and good luck -
John
I had MVR surgery 5/23. Based on my experiences, here are a few things to do.
1. Get in good physical shape. Exercise as much as you can, stop smoking, stop drinking too much, get your weight to a healthy level, then exercise more. Being in good shape is the best thing you can do to speed and ease your recuperation. I did this and it has paid off many times over.
2. If you are having OHS, do flexibility exercises (stretches, yoga, ...) especially those that make your back more flexible. The surgery involves opening your sternum then bending you in ways your body is not designed to bend. Two weeks after surgery, I had more back pain than sternum pain. I believe that a flexible back would help a lot here. I did not do this and wish I had.
3. Talk to lots of people (this forum and other places) about what is going on. You will be amazed how many people have gone through this or had parents, siblings, friends, even children go through this. As our minister always says "Whatever you go through in life, you are not going through it alone." You might be shy about disclosing medical information. Get over it and you will get tremendous amounts of support. I did this and am really glad I did.
4. Line up your support system. My wife with friends at church, lined up meals for the first two weeks I was out of the hospital. Hospital food was OK but bland. The first night home from the hospital, we had spicey Ghanian Ground Nut stew. It was wonderful. Also, we did not need to worry about fixing dinner for that first two weeks. Don't forget thank you notes.
5. Maintain a positive and determined attitude. You are not a piece of meat and the main responsibility for your health and recovery is your own. Read funny books and do all your walks and then more. This is corrective surgery - you will be repaired when it is done and you have done your recuperation.
6. Remember your caregiver is going through this too. For the past many months (6 months for me), I was the focus of everything. For the first month out of the hospital, that remained the case. Your caregiver / spouse will be getting a little tired of all this. Recuperate fast for their sake and the sake of your relationship.
Keep a positive outlook and good luck -
John